"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJatNewYork

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There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by DJatNewYork
There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
thats just pushing it to much, its too out their.
 

Distant Light

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Damn I hate saying the samething over and over but here it goes again...

I would recommend that you don't say "Hey, Whats your name" unless she have given you AIs. Why would she want to go on a date with you? Your making your chances real slim if you never even talked to her and your seeking rapport from her. Your going about this all the wrong way that whole outline you just said was just no good. I'm too lazy to give some serious tips right now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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