"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJatNewYork

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There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by DJatNewYork
There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
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thats just pushing it to much, its too out their.
 
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Damn I hate saying the samething over and over but here it goes again...

I would recommend that you don't say "Hey, Whats your name" unless she have given you AIs. Why would she want to go on a date with you? Your making your chances real slim if you never even talked to her and your seeking rapport from her. Your going about this all the wrong way that whole outline you just said was just no good. I'm too lazy to give some serious tips right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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