"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJatNewYork

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There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by DJatNewYork
There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
thats just pushing it to much, its too out their.
 

Distant Light

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Damn I hate saying the samething over and over but here it goes again...

I would recommend that you don't say "Hey, Whats your name" unless she have given you AIs. Why would she want to go on a date with you? Your making your chances real slim if you never even talked to her and your seeking rapport from her. Your going about this all the wrong way that whole outline you just said was just no good. I'm too lazy to give some serious tips right now.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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