"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJatNewYork

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There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Unique

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Originally posted by DJatNewYork
There's this cute asian chick that sits around me in one of my classes... she gives me EC and laughed a lot of my jokes... (with the rest of the class :p) but it's the EC that makes me think she's interested.

Next time, I'm going to class 5 mins early and just talk to her... set up a date.

I want to keep it short... and make it not a big thing...

Here's my plan:

"Hey, whats your name"
-Blah Blah
"Nice to meet you, FLUFF Talk"
-Blah Blah
"So... I gotta ask you a really serious question" Serious face ;)
-"Yeah?"
"Whats your favorite food?" - Sarcastic face ;)
-Blah Blah
"Ok, let's eat some on Friday"


If she says "No":
"Are you married?, when is the wedding?"
-I have a boyfriend. (Look below)

OR

"No? You don't want to eat with me? I thought the way to a girl's heart was through her stomach" - Smiling, happy face...

This would keep things on the good side, maybe I'll ask her again, or use her to get some of her friends ;)

If she says "I have a boyfriend":
"I have lots of boyfriends too... but I just asked to eat with you... nothing else"

This would keep things on the sweet side also...




Any tips/changes?
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thats just pushing it to much, its too out their.
 
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Damn I hate saying the samething over and over but here it goes again...

I would recommend that you don't say "Hey, Whats your name" unless she have given you AIs. Why would she want to go on a date with you? Your making your chances real slim if you never even talked to her and your seeking rapport from her. Your going about this all the wrong way that whole outline you just said was just no good. I'm too lazy to give some serious tips right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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