"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you think of this guy?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian

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why is it restricted? i don't feel like making a youtube account

Is it the Britney Spears guy?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Obsidian said:
why is it restricted? i don't feel like making a youtube account

Is it the Britney Spears guy?
HAAH i was thinking the same thing before i opened the link!! hahaha but no its not.

its a girl that fights a guy... but he obviously doesn't try because he woulda killed her if he was seriously fighting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ

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That's what I saw yesterday. A girl fighting a boy after a party. She started spitting him in the face and started slapping him. He then grabbed the b!tch and pushed her away and she fell onto the sidewalk. The police came and seperated them and told the crowd to leave. Needless to say that they just told the girl to go home and they arrested the guy.
 

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I don't know about the guy. But that girl kinda turns me on.
 

Bonez

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That video is OLLLLLD.

There was an investigation on some news site where the video was shot and the woman got arrested.

That was a kid, 13 years old I think.
 

DJDamage

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Physical confortation with a woman is a lose-lose situation for a man.

If you win, you just beat up a girl, congradulation jackass. If you lose you are a pathetic wuss.

If he really wanted that girl to back away and run he should have showered her with kisses ala pepe le pew.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonez

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DJ

Thats his freaking mom! Its called child abuse you dip****
 

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You gotta teath the girl with nipple pinches at first, instead of punches. Then when she attacks, put her on her back, spread her legs, put your crouch near her puss, hold her hands down on the ground, get real close and say. "I win!"
 

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Oh the first video that would suck lol..
 
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