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Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How can 5 be average? Percentage-calculations not your strongest side eh?Originally posted by Duke
5 not being "average." 7 being average, so 5 is below.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I DIDN'T say 5 was average, I said that 7 is average when it comes to rating chicks. So 5 is below average. Go on hotornot.com and most of the "normal" looking chicks get 7s. Babes get 8s. Hot babes get 9s. Super hot babes get 10s (or 9.9's anyway). Slightly pudgy or an unsightly blemish and u get a 6. Fat? 5. Ghastly? 4 and below.Originally posted by \O/
How can 5 be average? Percentage-calculations not your strongest side eh?
The way HB7's are being used quite excessively on this site, I can agree that 7's can be considered average. But that's just because people rate 5's as 7's and 7's as 10's...
that's great. lolOriginally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
LOL you guys know that friendster tracks the ppl who view her profile right...
So when she looks at her profile within the next few weeks, her ego will skyrocket because she suddenly has so many hits, and then she'll be shut down the next month bcuz no one will view it anymore lol!.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The irony being that he ASKED what we thought. Only jackarse here is you.Originally posted by smoke city
you guys are a bunch of jackasses.
Damn commie bastard!!!Originally posted by PurplePimp
Почему Вы ищете ратификацию от анонимных людей на интернетовском форуме? Имейте веру. Если Вы думаете, что она горячий тогда трахает ее. Почему потребность наше мнение? Красота субъективна. Что мы думаем, может отличный чем, что Вы думаете привлекательными. Идите с вашей кишкой. мужчина не полагается на другого человека все время. Если бы она не была на Интернете, и Вы видели ее на улице, Вы вынули бы сотовый телефон, делают снимок, то посылают картину другу и спрашивают, если она достаточно горяча, чтобы приблизиться? Теперь, мужчиной и остановкой с незрелым постом.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.