DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what do you think of this girl-looks
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Can't really rate how people actually look through the internet. Can only rate pictures of people. And the lighting/angle in that picture is bad. There's a possibility she's a 7, but as it stands that pic rates a 5 out of 10. 5 not being "average." 7 being average, so 5 is below.
But if she makes you horny then f*ck what we anyone says.
But if she makes you horny then f*ck what we anyone says.
How can 5 be average? Percentage-calculations not your strongest side eh?
The way HB7's are being used quite excessively on this site, I can agree that 7's can be considered average. But that's just because people rate 5's as 7's and 7's as 10's...
LongDrinkofWater
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Well, on my HB scale, she would be about a 5-6. Then again, it's only my rating scale used only for myself. In other words, forget about everyone else's opinion, unless you're looking for arm candy and want her for social proof or something. If you like her look, then by all means try to hook up......
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I DIDN'T say 5 was average, I said that 7 is average when it comes to rating chicks. So 5 is below average. Go on hotornot.com and most of the "normal" looking chicks get 7s. Babes get 8s. Hot babes get 9s. Super hot babes get 10s (or 9.9's anyway). Slightly pudgy or an unsightly blemish and u get a 6. Fat? 5. Ghastly? 4 and below.Originally posted by \O/
How can 5 be average? Percentage-calculations not your strongest side eh?
The way HB7's are being used quite excessively on this site, I can agree that 7's can be considered average. But that's just because people rate 5's as 7's and 7's as 10's...
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Senior Don Juan
LOL you guys know that friendster tracks the ppl who view her profile right...
So when she looks at her profile within the next few weeks, her ego will skyrocket because she suddenly has so many hits, and then she'll be shut down the next month bcuz no one will view it anymore lol!.
So when she looks at her profile within the next few weeks, her ego will skyrocket because she suddenly has so many hits, and then she'll be shut down the next month bcuz no one will view it anymore lol!.
lets_do_this
Don Juan
that's great. lol
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
She looks like an Aborigine
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
The irony being that he ASKED what we thought. Only jackarse here is you.
Hot or Not ratings are an absolutely ridiculous measure of attractiveness - to use them as a reference even in jest would be silly.
Childish semantics aside, 5 is average, middle of the road, not necessarily ugly, someone you'd probably lay under certain circumstances- nuff' said. With that in mind, i ain't gonna bother rating her from one pic.
I don't find the girl attractive, but then i'm going on just one bad photograph, without any masserisms, hearing the voice, personality, etc.
Childish semantics aside, 5 is average, middle of the road, not necessarily ugly, someone you'd probably lay under certain circumstances- nuff' said. With that in mind, i ain't gonna bother rating her from one pic.
I don't find the girl attractive, but then i'm going on just one bad photograph, without any masserisms, hearing the voice, personality, etc.
BB.COM ARMY
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Damn commie bastard!!!
BANNED!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Id say shes a 5.5 maybe 6?