"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Do YOu Think of 'BadBoy'?

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Is anyone here familiar w/'BadBoy's material? I'm pretty intrigued by it. I'm thinking about buying his CDs. I listened to some samples, but wasn't too impressed. But I like his philosophy. I read some of the articles on his site. If anyone here has purchased the CDs, post a message telling me what you thought of them. They're a little pricy and I don't want to get jipped.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Re:

What Do YOu Think of 'BadBoy'?


it was okay. BadBoy II sucked though. Will Smith was corny in that one.

Oh you mean the pickup artist, my bad! :nervous:
 

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He's all about direct game. Using openers like "I think you're beautiful and I wanted to get to know you". I'm not too sure about that. Without DHV that kind of stuff will not work.
 

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Q1 said:
He's all about direct game. Using openers like "I think you're beautiful and I wanted to get to know you". I'm not too sure about that. Without DHV that kind of stuff will not work.

I don't know about that. I don't see any reason why it wouldn't work as long as you are being sincere and demonstrate that you're confident and not expecting a certain answer.

I like to say, "Don't take this the wrong way, but...you have fantastic eyes/hair/skin/whatever." This is cool because it sets her up to hear something bad and then ends with something good. Also, "I'm not trying to to pick you up or anything, but I think you're beautiful."

There are ways that this stuff can work.

Oh, and btw, there is a great e-book by Stephane Hemon called "heart-centered pick-up." It's free and very good. If you sign up for his [AMAZING!] newsletter, he will send you a link for the e-book, as well as some other great tools.

~Vibe~
 

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Direct game has tight inner igame so f thats what your want more of then he is your go to guy.

Choices
Want Direct goto - Badboy or shark
If you want kinda of a mixture - Woodhaven and dimitri

I'd would recommend woodhaven and dimitri

even though there all pretty good but like shezz said I wouldn't buy only people I'd probably buy something for cheap is Tyler durden, Mystery, and bradp.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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