"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Do YOu Think of 'BadBoy'?

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Is anyone here familiar w/'BadBoy's material? I'm pretty intrigued by it. I'm thinking about buying his CDs. I listened to some samples, but wasn't too impressed. But I like his philosophy. I read some of the articles on his site. If anyone here has purchased the CDs, post a message telling me what you thought of them. They're a little pricy and I don't want to get jipped.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SeldomSeen

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What Do YOu Think of 'BadBoy'?


it was okay. BadBoy II sucked though. Will Smith was corny in that one.

Oh you mean the pickup artist, my bad! :nervous:
 

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He's all about direct game. Using openers like "I think you're beautiful and I wanted to get to know you". I'm not too sure about that. Without DHV that kind of stuff will not work.
 

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Q1 said:
He's all about direct game. Using openers like "I think you're beautiful and I wanted to get to know you". I'm not too sure about that. Without DHV that kind of stuff will not work.

I don't know about that. I don't see any reason why it wouldn't work as long as you are being sincere and demonstrate that you're confident and not expecting a certain answer.

I like to say, "Don't take this the wrong way, but...you have fantastic eyes/hair/skin/whatever." This is cool because it sets her up to hear something bad and then ends with something good. Also, "I'm not trying to to pick you up or anything, but I think you're beautiful."

There are ways that this stuff can work.

Oh, and btw, there is a great e-book by Stephane Hemon called "heart-centered pick-up." It's free and very good. If you sign up for his [AMAZING!] newsletter, he will send you a link for the e-book, as well as some other great tools.

~Vibe~
 

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Direct game has tight inner igame so f thats what your want more of then he is your go to guy.

Choices
Want Direct goto - Badboy or shark
If you want kinda of a mixture - Woodhaven and dimitri

I'd would recommend woodhaven and dimitri

even though there all pretty good but like shezz said I wouldn't buy only people I'd probably buy something for cheap is Tyler durden, Mystery, and bradp.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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