You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
whats wrong with getting a slap, have you ever noticed that when girls slap you (not that i have been slaped so much lol) or well when you seem them slaping guys, its not that hard, because they are just trying to not be sluts by letting him continue but really they dont mind it, infact they probably like it because they think it might lead to somthing else. Do you think girls cant throw a punch, if they wanted to hurt you they would punch you not slap you.
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
"""yeah you are right, i will not go in to detail but will just say that you are going over the top here, grabbing her ass when she seriously tells you not to, and also i probably would not tell her how great it is so many times.Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
Grabbing a girl's ass is okay if she's comfortable around you.
Now that that's out of the way, just grab her butt and give her some compliments.
"Geez, that thing is amazing....
If she tells you not to do that (in a joking tone), just tell her why you can't and grab her ass again.
"Sorry, I can't help it.... that thing is incredible.
If she becomes serious and tells you to stop, mimick her emotion, and then grab that ass.
"Alright, I'm sorry....! Sorry you have such a nice ass.!
EDIT: If she starts grabbing your ass, this girl is yours.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
picked her up by her ass? how exactly? please elaborate on this.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Originally posted by Rogerman
Have you guys tried it while kissing ?