She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whats wrong with getting a slap, have you ever noticed that when girls slap you (not that i have been slaped so much lol) or well when you seem them slaping guys, its not that hard, because they are just trying to not be sluts by letting him continue but really they dont mind it, infact they probably like it because they think it might lead to somthing else. Do you think girls cant throw a punch, if they wanted to hurt you they would punch you not slap you.
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
"""yeah you are right, i will not go in to detail but will just say that you are going over the top here, grabbing her ass when she seriously tells you not to, and also i probably would not tell her how great it is so many times.Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
Grabbing a girl's ass is okay if she's comfortable around you.
Now that that's out of the way, just grab her butt and give her some compliments.
"Geez, that thing is amazing....
If she tells you not to do that (in a joking tone), just tell her why you can't and grab her ass again.
"Sorry, I can't help it.... that thing is incredible.
If she becomes serious and tells you to stop, mimick her emotion, and then grab that ass.
"Alright, I'm sorry....! Sorry you have such a nice ass.!
EDIT: If she starts grabbing your ass, this girl is yours.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
picked her up by her ass? how exactly? please elaborate on this.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by Rogerman
Have you guys tried it while kissing ?