You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
whats wrong with getting a slap, have you ever noticed that when girls slap you (not that i have been slaped so much lol) or well when you seem them slaping guys, its not that hard, because they are just trying to not be sluts by letting him continue but really they dont mind it, infact they probably like it because they think it might lead to somthing else. Do you think girls cant throw a punch, if they wanted to hurt you they would punch you not slap you.
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
"""yeah you are right, i will not go in to detail but will just say that you are going over the top here, grabbing her ass when she seriously tells you not to, and also i probably would not tell her how great it is so many times.Originally posted by idiot_boyfriend
Not necessarily.... I was joking around with this girl, she was enjoying it, but then she slapped me with a smile on her face. I was thinking.... "Okay, this girl is nuts...." so I ask for another one to balance it out on both cheeks.
Grabbing a girl's ass is okay if she's comfortable around you.
Now that that's out of the way, just grab her butt and give her some compliments.
"Geez, that thing is amazing....
If she tells you not to do that (in a joking tone), just tell her why you can't and grab her ass again.
"Sorry, I can't help it.... that thing is incredible.
If she becomes serious and tells you to stop, mimick her emotion, and then grab that ass.
"Alright, I'm sorry....! Sorry you have such a nice ass.!
EDIT: If she starts grabbing your ass, this girl is yours.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
picked her up by her ass? how exactly? please elaborate on this.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by Rogerman
Have you guys tried it while kissing ?