"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think Game will look like in an exocolony?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me thinking of how future PUAs will have to adjust their Game in this future schema.
my opinion: Something tells me it is going to be the worst sausage-fest ever. :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BillyPilgrim

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Gee, like a cursory glance at any random mining community anywhere on Earth isn't going to give you an idea.
 

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Gee, like a cursory glance at any random mining community anywhere on Earth isn't going to give you an idea.
Such colonies have always had brothels - of course, Game isn't required there. :rolleyes:
 

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Such colonies have always had brothels - of course, Game isn't required there. :rolleyes:
Why would you say that? Because a mod here thinks so? Your views can be censored on here but it doesn't mean you actually have to agree with that. EVERYTHING dealing with women requires game. I guess talking about gold-diggers and sugar daddies is the next thing that will be censored on here because that doesn't sound like it requires much game either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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