So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school (high school), we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what do you think about this tactic?
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yea definitely working on that.Jhcl4000 said:Don't get friend-zoned.
Igetit!
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Dude,don't do this.JJ109 said:So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school (high school), we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
I understand you don't want to come off as being predictable or desperate,but come on man,you're starting off going over board.
You need to establish an emotionbal connect first before you start pulling back. Just go there and talk to her,but make sure you flirt and tease her FIRST before you go with the "what classes do you like","what do you like to do for fun", comfort type of questions.
When you see her,be like,"Wow,I like the way you look in that (whatever she's wearing). You didn't have to get all dressed up for ME".
Start with attraction,then move on to comfort. If you start with comfort,you'll run the risk of getting friendzoned.
Go ahead and go see her tomorrow. Make a connection first,then you can start being scarce.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Exactly. High school people put TOO much stock into what David DeAngelo says. Being "unpredictable and not needy" doesn't create attraction, it just increases it when you already have it, which you don't.Igetit! said:Dude,don't do this.
I understand you don't want to come off as being predictable or desperate,but come on man,you're starting off going over board.
You need to establish an emotionbal connect first before you start pulling back. Just go there and talk to her,but make sure you flirt and tease her FIRST before you go with the "what classes do you like","what do you like to do for fun", comfort type of questions.
When you see her,be like,"Wow,I like the way you look in that (whatever she's wearing). You didn't have to get all dressed up for ME".
Start with attraction,then move on to comfort. If you start with comfort,you'll run the risk of getting friendzoned.
Go ahead and go see her tomorrow. Make a connection first,then you can start being scarce.