So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school (high school), we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
what do you think about this tactic?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yea definitely working on that.Jhcl4000 said:Don't get friend-zoned.
Igetit!
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Dude,don't do this.JJ109 said:So I met this girl today who is pretty new to the school (high school), we talked and got to know each other for a little bit. I said that "well I'm always in the library working on stuff and we can always chill". She said that "that's cool yeah, I'm always here too" (never saw her in here before lols). So she is expecting to see me tommorow at the library but I'm not going to see her for another couple days, reason being is because it shows I'm not desperate, not predictable and mystery.
I understand you don't want to come off as being predictable or desperate,but come on man,you're starting off going over board.
You need to establish an emotionbal connect first before you start pulling back. Just go there and talk to her,but make sure you flirt and tease her FIRST before you go with the "what classes do you like","what do you like to do for fun", comfort type of questions.
When you see her,be like,"Wow,I like the way you look in that (whatever she's wearing). You didn't have to get all dressed up for ME".
Start with attraction,then move on to comfort. If you start with comfort,you'll run the risk of getting friendzoned.
Go ahead and go see her tomorrow. Make a connection first,then you can start being scarce.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Exactly. High school people put TOO much stock into what David DeAngelo says. Being "unpredictable and not needy" doesn't create attraction, it just increases it when you already have it, which you don't.Igetit! said:Dude,don't do this.
I understand you don't want to come off as being predictable or desperate,but come on man,you're starting off going over board.
You need to establish an emotionbal connect first before you start pulling back. Just go there and talk to her,but make sure you flirt and tease her FIRST before you go with the "what classes do you like","what do you like to do for fun", comfort type of questions.
When you see her,be like,"Wow,I like the way you look in that (whatever she's wearing). You didn't have to get all dressed up for ME".
Start with attraction,then move on to comfort. If you start with comfort,you'll run the risk of getting friendzoned.
Go ahead and go see her tomorrow. Make a connection first,then you can start being scarce.