MatureDJ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What do you think about this new dating site?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Boilermaker
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another variant of the "sugar daddy" concept.
Attraction is not a choice. And you can't buy it.
Attraction is not a choice. And you can't buy it.
interesting! I actually think the concept is great. Kind of a sociological experiment. I dig it, while most of the 'generous' people are men and 'attractive' people are women, it seems that you can decide which you feel you fall into and go from there.
It would be interesting to put up two profiles, one in each section, and see the differences in reactions.
I think it's a very interesting concept. The majority of men pay for sex anyway in one way or another, it's cool to put an actual dollar-amount on where you stand (as far as internet dating goes at least, which is often more difficult than in-person pickup).
It's also an interesting business model. I assume since the site doesn't charge members any monthly fees, they take a cut of what the 'generous' folks will pay for the 'attractive' folks. Cool and innovative. EDIT: ermm... just signed up and this doesnt appear to be the case.
Now if they lumped all men into the 'generous' section and all women into the 'attractive' section, that would suck. But they let you make the choice, so it's all good. I think I'll put profiles in each and see what's up. I love studying the mating market, fascinating stuff.
EDIT: Checked it out, found out how payment works, and I think this is the big downside and will eventually sink it: The "generous" people have to pay to unlock communication. And it ain't cheap. I think this means that an "attractive" person can't initiate contact with an offer. Say you're a hot guy and you see some cougar and you want to offer to go out with her if she pays you $50 or whatever, I don't think you can do that.
So the transaction fees are going to kill it I think. Plus the fact that there is no "escrow." It suggests the payor pay half at the start of the date and half when it's over but, really, how is that enforceable? And if the "attractive" person has sex with the "generous" person during the date would that be considered prostitution, and could the site itself be engaged in "pimping?" Kind of an interesting legal question.
It would be interesting to put up two profiles, one in each section, and see the differences in reactions.
I think it's a very interesting concept. The majority of men pay for sex anyway in one way or another, it's cool to put an actual dollar-amount on where you stand (as far as internet dating goes at least, which is often more difficult than in-person pickup).
It's also an interesting business model. I assume since the site doesn't charge members any monthly fees, they take a cut of what the 'generous' folks will pay for the 'attractive' folks. Cool and innovative. EDIT: ermm... just signed up and this doesnt appear to be the case.
Now if they lumped all men into the 'generous' section and all women into the 'attractive' section, that would suck. But they let you make the choice, so it's all good. I think I'll put profiles in each and see what's up. I love studying the mating market, fascinating stuff.
EDIT: Checked it out, found out how payment works, and I think this is the big downside and will eventually sink it: The "generous" people have to pay to unlock communication. And it ain't cheap. I think this means that an "attractive" person can't initiate contact with an offer. Say you're a hot guy and you see some cougar and you want to offer to go out with her if she pays you $50 or whatever, I don't think you can do that.
So the transaction fees are going to kill it I think. Plus the fact that there is no "escrow." It suggests the payor pay half at the start of the date and half when it's over but, really, how is that enforceable? And if the "attractive" person has sex with the "generous" person during the date would that be considered prostitution, and could the site itself be engaged in "pimping?" Kind of an interesting legal question.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backbreaker
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we are creating a Muslim only dating site
http://vkunjdemo.com/17472/
we still have a few months of work left but I think the site is going take off.
http://vkunjdemo.com/17472/
we still have a few months of work left but I think the site is going take off.
Wow. The founder looks like the typical rich nerd who will just pay for it. At least he knows what part of the game he's in, and while he's been a trick for some time, now he's learned to pimp out other tricks and get their money. So you go trick pimp, pimp on!