Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Same here. I'll never understand how AW-ing is considered "attractive" to femoids lol.My problem is I’m not a loud boisterous guy, I hate attention...
This is a joke.. Right? No way this dude is real.![]()
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Oh dudes like him are very real. That’s why I lose my **** when a girl labels me a nice guy or “you’re so much nicer than any guy I’ve ever met!” because I feel like she’s lumping me in with these losers. And I am nice but I’m nice to everyone not just women, if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with me or date me cause I’m nice then that’s her problem not mine.This is a joke.. Right? No way this dude is real.
I hear ya dude. I consider myself kind, not nice. However, some people do mistake my kindness with weakness. Once they violate that one strike rule, apparently, I am no longer looked upon as nice or kind. Go figure.Oh dudes like him are very real. That’s why I lose my **** when a girl labels me a nice guy or “you’re so much nicer than any guy I’ve ever met!” because I feel like she’s lumping me in with these losers. And I am nice but I’m nice to everyone not just women, if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with me or date me cause I’m nice then that’s her problem not mine.