What do you think about the "bend over boyfriend"?

[MatureDJ]

http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/why_i_agreed_to_be_a_bend-over_boyfriend/

The first time my girlfriend fücked me in the ass it was with a small purple strap-on dildo that her ex-girlfriend had shipped from Ohio. Like any lady should before taking her man's anal virginity, my girlfriend took me for a night on the town beforehand. Walking home, after dinner and a long stop at a bar, we decided it was about time I made good on an earlier promise to let her screw me for a change.

It was early on in our relationship when Mac asked if I would let her fück me in the äss with a strap-on, and I was drunk.

I was head over heels for her, and I wanted to make her happy. I thought that along with pretty flowers and little cupcakes, letting her fück me in the brown eye would be a way to show my appreciation for her.

For me it wasn't a sexual orientation thing, or a power thing: It was just a sex thing. And if Mac feels like sliding her long legs into that harness tonight, I'll be more than happy to get on all fours and take it in the äss like a man.

 

[piranha45]

I guess you could consider it no different than a back massage, if it feels good...

 

[DJDamage]

More proof of the effeminacy of males in western culture.

Hell if those men to act like chicks they might as well be fvcked like one.

I still don't know how women can respect a guy like that, my guess is that they don't.

 

[jophil28]

How much further can men descend in this insane belief that "pleasing" a woman is the key to a successful relationship.

Sickening.

 

[squirrels]

And you found this while searching for...what??

 

[MatureDJ]

BTW, I have had women who have given be a digital rectal message whilst lovemaking, and it is an interesting and nice feeling (especially for men like me who have a prostate condition.) But this seems to be done out of power, not pleasure.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

C'mon, you guys never had some girl give you a digital rim job right as you are blowing your load inside her?

Feels good.

I don't know about taking a huge purple dildo up the A$$ though...

 

[jacob]

ok this is fuking gay and queer and is the opposite of Don Juan. Let's not backslide.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's something you enjoy and you're not doing it just to make someone else happy.

I wouldn't be that into it I don't think. I've had a finger up there before, and it's pretty uncomfortable (though I haven't tried it in a sexual context, so who knows?).

Those of you saying this is somehow automatically gay are ridiculous, how insecure in your manhood are you? You either enjoy it or you don't. Remind me what's gay about being with a woman. Obviously being penetrated puts you in the more submissive position (depending on who you ask), but I think it takes a real man to be able to admit to doing and enjoying something like this without insecurity.

 

[wjh]

How much further can men descend in this insane belief that "pleasing" a woman is the key to a successful relationship.

Sickening.

hehe, you asked...

http://www.aroundherfinger.com/

you'll be shocked.

 

[wjh]

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's something you enjoy and you're not doing it just to make someone else happy.

I wouldn't be that into it I don't think. I've had a finger up there before, and it's pretty uncomfortable (though I haven't tried it in a sexual context, so who knows?).

Those of you saying this is somehow automatically gay are ridiculous, how insecure in your manhood are you? You either enjoy it or you don't. Remind me what's gay about being with a woman. Obviously being penetrated puts you in the more submissive position (depending on who you ask), but I think it takes a real man to be able to admit to doing and enjoying something like this without insecurity.

LOL - it takes a real man huh...

 

[KontrollerX]

"What do you think about the "bend over boyfriend"?"

I think those guys are closet homosexuals who need to come out of the closet already.

 

[jophil28]

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's something you enjoy and you're not doing it just to make someone else happy.

Read the story again. HE disliked the experience and, most disturbing of all, he agreed to do it to "please her", like some dumb needy teenager.

Who is the biggest perverted baitch here ? I vote for him.

 

[slaog]

So he was fvcked in the ass with a dildo his GF got from her ex GF! You couldn't make it up. :crackup:


Its obvious who wears the trousers in that relationship... the lesbian.

 

[Interceptor]

I call BS.
That has to be fake.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Let's not backslide.

backslide

:crackup:

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Read the story again. HE disliked the experience and, most disturbing of all, he agreed to do it to "please her", like some dumb needy teenager.

Who is the biggest perverted baitch here ? I vote for him.

I only read the quotes that the OP inserted, but I don't think anyone should do things in bed they don't want to do just to please the other person. Find someone you're more sexually compatible with.

 

[radiodude]

Just because it's pleasurable, and it may be, doesn't mean you should automatically do this.

Stimulation digitally upon mutual equal 'fair' encounters is one thing.

Taking it with a dildo while bent over and purposely planning it out while your girl TAKES YOU OUT like a man would take a woman out is a whole (no pun) different scenario.

There is a relational dynamic occuring here where the female is clearly the dominant masculine figure. While this may work initially or for a casual encounter, over time she will lose respect for the man.

This is not a healthy relationship dynamic. It is not becoming of a MAN who desires to have the proper and fulfilling man-woman relationship and be ultimately happy.

 

[speed dawg]

Some people have too much fvcking time on their hands.

 

[goodfoot]

You think you should have not posted this.