revolutionnow
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What a digrace to his people
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cha-ching$$$I think he took improvising a little too far lol. I'd still love to see a fight between him and Khabib though.
No kicks, knees, elbows, or grappling? That's bullsh1t.He and Mayweather are supposed to fight in the Octagon now for the UFC...except no kicks, knees, elbows, or grappling will be allowed. They are going to allow clench-fighting, at least of some kind. It is like inventing a new sport, just for these two, but ironically it may actually resemble boxing from the 1800's, where grappling from a standing position was largely allowed.
https://www.foxsports.com/west/stor...s-no-takedowns-skip-bayless-undisputed-041018
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I agree. They need to pick a sport and not make up a new one. I always thought K1 kickboxing would have been a good compromise. Learning to defend against kicks can be accomplished a lot faster than the years it takes to learn to grapple.This harms both sports more than helps them
If he was a negro you'd think he was a fooking legend.Same as before..
He's a fooking overated bum