revolutionnow
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What a digrace to his people
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cha-ching$$$I think he took improvising a little too far lol. I'd still love to see a fight between him and Khabib though.
No kicks, knees, elbows, or grappling? That's bullsh1t.He and Mayweather are supposed to fight in the Octagon now for the UFC...except no kicks, knees, elbows, or grappling will be allowed. They are going to allow clench-fighting, at least of some kind. It is like inventing a new sport, just for these two, but ironically it may actually resemble boxing from the 1800's, where grappling from a standing position was largely allowed.
https://www.foxsports.com/west/stor...s-no-takedowns-skip-bayless-undisputed-041018
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I agree. They need to pick a sport and not make up a new one. I always thought K1 kickboxing would have been a good compromise. Learning to defend against kicks can be accomplished a lot faster than the years it takes to learn to grapple.This harms both sports more than helps them
If he was a negro you'd think he was a fooking legend.Same as before..
He's a fooking overated bum