"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

What do you say when a girl sends you nudes out of the blue?

Thread starter El Payaso
Start date Mar 4, 2015

El Payaso

Master Don Juan

#1

Like a pic of her topless or something.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JimmyBizzle

Don Juan

#2

"Come over and show me in person."

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#3

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless or something.

If she sends a nude pic out of nowhere?

I'd probably respond with something funny at first not "thirsty".

"Well Hello! lol" or "Schawiiing! lol" "Wowoweewaa! Hahaha" One or two word with an lol. And then when she responds go into a normal conversation while setting something up to not come off as being "too eager" to take the bait and go overboard sexually before you meet.

It depends on the chick, how long you've known her, and how bad she wants you or is just trying to be a dik tease. You'd know best. A simple one or two word "funny" response, wait for her to reply, set up a meet while making normal conversation.

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LMFAO

Master Don Juan

#4

"Send me a video"

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Mike32ct

Master Don Juan

#5

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless.

"Are they cold?" lol

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leif_Johnson

Don Juan

#6

She is a hoe looking for self validation trying to hook you sexually. Schedule a bang and that's about it. Chicks like that are bad news.

Suspens

Master Don Juan

#7

"Anything else to offer?"
"Jeez you really need to change your diet"

No.Danny

Master Don Juan

#8

"Can't believe you think I'm that type of guy! Gosh no respect"

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SmooveMooves

Master Don Juan

#9

****y funny statement.

Absolutely NO compliments

NO: Omg babe that's sexy. You Got me so turned on.

Yes: Someone was thinking of me today. I hope they're ready for my visit.

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Thefakeslimshady

Don Juan

#10

"So this is the new invisible clothing I've been hearing so much about"

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Chamber36

Master Don Juan

#11

LMFAO said:
"Send me a video"

Best response imo

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#12

Just thought of a reply. She sends you a nude pic. You reply: Thanks. Can I come over while you model for me and take the next one?

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BrainDamage92

Master Don Juan

#13

Nice boobs?

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Loki.7

Banned

#14

I get this all the time.....

I usualy text dirty back and make her horny over text.... I usualy tell her what to do, if she's in work e.t.c. "now do to the toilet and **** yourself with something and send me the picture or video".

When I get these pictures usualy really horny and thinking of me, this turns me on too..... So I get the girl to do more things for me.... Like little "missions".

" you're my little slut sending me those pictures, you must take those wet knickers off right now and spend the day exposed thinking me". Kinda an example of what I send back.

Girls like this are Dimonds in my opinion, why not take full advantage

.

All the ****y funny stuff, is stupid im this case. Have fun with it and don't play games.

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victorneagoe

New Member

#15

Hmm this is a secret thing O.O

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#16

I only had one woman who did this. I generally didn't comment on the pictures other than occasionally giving her a smiley face.

If you want to continue getting the pictures, you should not be punishing her for it. Using a neg or c/f could make her too self-conscious, which is NOT what you want her feeling. You want her wondering what you're thinking, and THAT is the extent of it.

You also should not compliment her, as it places you in the category of a typical AFC.

Again, mention little to nothing about the picture.

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#17

You can pretty much say anything TBH so long as you don't put the chick down. If she sends you nudes it's a good thing.

I've gotten nudes and went sexual. Gotten them and sent a smiley. Or told them to come over / or me come over their place. Do whatever suits you but don't cokblock yourself by trying to be "alpha" and putting the chick down. That's retarded.

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Meisterman

Senior Don Juan

#18

Does she want validation? Absolutely. But the thing is, once she gets consistent validation from you either one of two things will happen. Either she will leave you and monkey branch to the next guy who is more of a challenge, or she will keep you around for the sole purpose of attention since she's an attention ***** who needs the validation. In any case, I agree with the guy who said not to compliment her, and give a ****y or funny remark instead

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Don-Kong

Senior Don Juan

#19

Immediate sign. Can't get more obvious.

What would you say?

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#20

MidnightCity said:
May be the case with older women (25+) but in my experience the younger and better looking the girl the most likely it's a shlt test.

I also don't see negging as "punishment" the neg in this case is a disqualifier which is the opposite of what an clueless afc would do.

Older girls who do this are just doing what they can to hold on to you

I don't Neg when I've already got the girl. If she sending nudies, you've already got her. There's no self-imposed pedestal to remove from under her.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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