"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

What do you say when a girl sends you nudes out of the blue?

Thread starter El Payaso
Start date Mar 4, 2015

El Payaso

Master Don Juan

#1

Like a pic of her topless or something.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JimmyBizzle

Don Juan

#2

"Come over and show me in person."

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#3

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless or something.

If she sends a nude pic out of nowhere?

I'd probably respond with something funny at first not "thirsty".

"Well Hello! lol" or "Schawiiing! lol" "Wowoweewaa! Hahaha" One or two word with an lol. And then when she responds go into a normal conversation while setting something up to not come off as being "too eager" to take the bait and go overboard sexually before you meet.

It depends on the chick, how long you've known her, and how bad she wants you or is just trying to be a dik tease. You'd know best. A simple one or two word "funny" response, wait for her to reply, set up a meet while making normal conversation.

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LMFAO

Master Don Juan

#4

"Send me a video"

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Mike32ct

Master Don Juan

#5

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless.

"Are they cold?" lol

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Leif_Johnson

Don Juan

#6

She is a hoe looking for self validation trying to hook you sexually. Schedule a bang and that's about it. Chicks like that are bad news.

Suspens

Master Don Juan

#7

"Anything else to offer?"
"Jeez you really need to change your diet"

No.Danny

Master Don Juan

#8

"Can't believe you think I'm that type of guy! Gosh no respect"

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SmooveMooves

Master Don Juan

#9

****y funny statement.

Absolutely NO compliments

NO: Omg babe that's sexy. You Got me so turned on.

Yes: Someone was thinking of me today. I hope they're ready for my visit.

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Thefakeslimshady

Don Juan

#10

"So this is the new invisible clothing I've been hearing so much about"

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Chamber36

Master Don Juan

#11

LMFAO said:
"Send me a video"

Best response imo

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#12

Just thought of a reply. She sends you a nude pic. You reply: Thanks. Can I come over while you model for me and take the next one?

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BrainDamage92

Master Don Juan

#13

Nice boobs?

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Loki.7

Banned

#14

I get this all the time.....

I usualy text dirty back and make her horny over text.... I usualy tell her what to do, if she's in work e.t.c. "now do to the toilet and **** yourself with something and send me the picture or video".

When I get these pictures usualy really horny and thinking of me, this turns me on too..... So I get the girl to do more things for me.... Like little "missions".

" you're my little slut sending me those pictures, you must take those wet knickers off right now and spend the day exposed thinking me". Kinda an example of what I send back.

Girls like this are Dimonds in my opinion, why not take full advantage

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All the ****y funny stuff, is stupid im this case. Have fun with it and don't play games.

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victorneagoe

New Member

#15

Hmm this is a secret thing O.O

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#16

I only had one woman who did this. I generally didn't comment on the pictures other than occasionally giving her a smiley face.

If you want to continue getting the pictures, you should not be punishing her for it. Using a neg or c/f could make her too self-conscious, which is NOT what you want her feeling. You want her wondering what you're thinking, and THAT is the extent of it.

You also should not compliment her, as it places you in the category of a typical AFC.

Again, mention little to nothing about the picture.

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#17

You can pretty much say anything TBH so long as you don't put the chick down. If she sends you nudes it's a good thing.

I've gotten nudes and went sexual. Gotten them and sent a smiley. Or told them to come over / or me come over their place. Do whatever suits you but don't cokblock yourself by trying to be "alpha" and putting the chick down. That's retarded.

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Meisterman

Senior Don Juan

#18

Does she want validation? Absolutely. But the thing is, once she gets consistent validation from you either one of two things will happen. Either she will leave you and monkey branch to the next guy who is more of a challenge, or she will keep you around for the sole purpose of attention since she's an attention ***** who needs the validation. In any case, I agree with the guy who said not to compliment her, and give a ****y or funny remark instead

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Don-Kong

Senior Don Juan

#19

Immediate sign. Can't get more obvious.

What would you say?

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#20

MidnightCity said:
May be the case with older women (25+) but in my experience the younger and better looking the girl the most likely it's a shlt test.

I also don't see negging as "punishment" the neg in this case is a disqualifier which is the opposite of what an clueless afc would do.

Older girls who do this are just doing what they can to hold on to you

I don't Neg when I've already got the girl. If she sending nudies, you've already got her. There's no self-imposed pedestal to remove from under her.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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