"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

What do you say when a girl sends you nudes out of the blue?

Thread starter El Payaso
Start date Mar 4, 2015

El Payaso

Master Don Juan

#1

Like a pic of her topless or something.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JimmyBizzle

Don Juan

#2

"Come over and show me in person."

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#3

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless or something.

If she sends a nude pic out of nowhere?

I'd probably respond with something funny at first not "thirsty".

"Well Hello! lol" or "Schawiiing! lol" "Wowoweewaa! Hahaha" One or two word with an lol. And then when she responds go into a normal conversation while setting something up to not come off as being "too eager" to take the bait and go overboard sexually before you meet.

It depends on the chick, how long you've known her, and how bad she wants you or is just trying to be a dik tease. You'd know best. A simple one or two word "funny" response, wait for her to reply, set up a meet while making normal conversation.

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LMFAO

Master Don Juan

#4

"Send me a video"

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Mike32ct

Master Don Juan

#5

El Payaso said:
Like a pic of her topless.

"Are they cold?" lol

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leif_Johnson

Don Juan

#6

She is a hoe looking for self validation trying to hook you sexually. Schedule a bang and that's about it. Chicks like that are bad news.

Suspens

Master Don Juan

#7

"Anything else to offer?"
"Jeez you really need to change your diet"

No.Danny

Master Don Juan

#8

"Can't believe you think I'm that type of guy! Gosh no respect"

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SmooveMooves

Master Don Juan

#9

****y funny statement.

Absolutely NO compliments

NO: Omg babe that's sexy. You Got me so turned on.

Yes: Someone was thinking of me today. I hope they're ready for my visit.

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Thefakeslimshady

Don Juan

#10

"So this is the new invisible clothing I've been hearing so much about"

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Chamber36

Master Don Juan

#11

LMFAO said:
"Send me a video"

Best response imo

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#12

Just thought of a reply. She sends you a nude pic. You reply: Thanks. Can I come over while you model for me and take the next one?

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BrainDamage92

Master Don Juan

#13

Nice boobs?

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Loki.7

Banned

#14

I get this all the time.....

I usualy text dirty back and make her horny over text.... I usualy tell her what to do, if she's in work e.t.c. "now do to the toilet and **** yourself with something and send me the picture or video".

When I get these pictures usualy really horny and thinking of me, this turns me on too..... So I get the girl to do more things for me.... Like little "missions".

" you're my little slut sending me those pictures, you must take those wet knickers off right now and spend the day exposed thinking me". Kinda an example of what I send back.

Girls like this are Dimonds in my opinion, why not take full advantage

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All the ****y funny stuff, is stupid im this case. Have fun with it and don't play games.

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victorneagoe

New Member

#15

Hmm this is a secret thing O.O

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#16

I only had one woman who did this. I generally didn't comment on the pictures other than occasionally giving her a smiley face.

If you want to continue getting the pictures, you should not be punishing her for it. Using a neg or c/f could make her too self-conscious, which is NOT what you want her feeling. You want her wondering what you're thinking, and THAT is the extent of it.

You also should not compliment her, as it places you in the category of a typical AFC.

Again, mention little to nothing about the picture.

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TarantulaHawk

Banned

#17

You can pretty much say anything TBH so long as you don't put the chick down. If she sends you nudes it's a good thing.

I've gotten nudes and went sexual. Gotten them and sent a smiley. Or told them to come over / or me come over their place. Do whatever suits you but don't cokblock yourself by trying to be "alpha" and putting the chick down. That's retarded.

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Meisterman

Senior Don Juan

#18

Does she want validation? Absolutely. But the thing is, once she gets consistent validation from you either one of two things will happen. Either she will leave you and monkey branch to the next guy who is more of a challenge, or she will keep you around for the sole purpose of attention since she's an attention ***** who needs the validation. In any case, I agree with the guy who said not to compliment her, and give a ****y or funny remark instead

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Don-Kong

Senior Don Juan

#19

Immediate sign. Can't get more obvious.

What would you say?

Desdinova

Master Don Juan

#20

MidnightCity said:
May be the case with older women (25+) but in my experience the younger and better looking the girl the most likely it's a shlt test.

I also don't see negging as "punishment" the neg in this case is a disqualifier which is the opposite of what an clueless afc would do.

Older girls who do this are just doing what they can to hold on to you

I don't Neg when I've already got the girl. If she sending nudies, you've already got her. There's no self-imposed pedestal to remove from under her.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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