"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what do YOU say when a girl asks you, "How many women have you been with?"

bigmil

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its funny -- the girl Im seeing asked me this last night in bed. I kinda chuckled and responded, "oh no more than a couple hundred." She just laughed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I usually tell the truth if she asks me after we had sex.

If it's before I probably would try to avoid a proper answer :).
 

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i always get asked when im abt to hook up with sum chick

i remmeber abt 3 years ago i actually told sum chick when she asked me...

but now i usually say i dunno i dont count really..how many stars r in the sky


sum chick asked me on the fone last nite and i just said that ^^^ and then she was like tell me i wanna know. So i said i'm not going to ask you, i wouldn;t want to know so why do you ask me?

but she still carried on asking if it was more than 10 more than 15...which i just replied its my personal business i aint saying. Which she replied jokingly that I was a male slag
 

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Gipper said:
I know most of you won't believe this, but no one I've ever slept with has asked me this.
That's weird, every girl I've slept with asked me this at some point prior to sex. Basically, if they ask, it means they intend on having sex with me very soon. And if I didn't ask back, they'd get pissed too.

Anyhoo - I've never slept with one with 5 or less partners yet...so yea, basically all American girls are sluts these days...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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vagrant

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if you're too good looking with a personality, the girl will never let you go...
 

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"More than the 40 year old virgin but less than John Holmes" :D
 

Alphamale1821

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A couple of responses i would say are
"Apparently not enough because i'm still looking for the right one"
"Not to many to have you concerned with who i've slept with"
"Wait, do you mean at the same time"

I like to go with the ****y and funny approach yet still being somewhat vague, not really giving her a direct answer for her "sh1t" test
 

Rata Blanca

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Alphamale1821 said:
A couple of responses i would say are
"Apparently not enough because i'm still looking for the right one"
"Not to many to have you concerned with who i've slept with"
"Wait, do you mean at the same time"

I like to go with the ****y and funny approach yet still being somewhat vague, not really giving her a direct answer for her "sh1t" test
I like that one
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I sometimes say over a million, or if I'm playfull that day I say "I'm still a virgin and I'm looking for my first" Then she looks at the pimp way I dress and laughs at me saying "Oh my God yeah right! HAHAHAHA you're funny"
 

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what do YOU say when a girl asks you, "How many women have you been with?"

"17. One more and I could open my own golf course!"
 

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I have had this question come up and I completely flubbed it. I proceed to give her an answer and an explanation as to why the number was low :(

It felt right in the cozy, cuddly, bedroom talk way, but man, the next day....can you saw awkward? I lost my credibility ectirely. Not just as a player, but as a person as well. I came off terribly terribly incongruent.

Lesson learned for posterity, and shared here for newbies.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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'Not too many. I'm very picky you know'

Vague and hints that the girl is very special
 

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start counting and your figures but not loud enough so she can hear you and go through all tens fingers then go bad the the first finger which would be #1 and now is #11 and do it a few times until you get past 20.
 

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This is such a loaded question. I PERSONALLY believe that if a chick is asking you this question PRIOR to sleeping with you, it probably means that SHE is pretty selective and and is not your standard hor that 80+% of western woman are. If in this situation I would simply ask "why does it matter?", and her body language will tell you what you should say next regardless of what comes out of her mouth. Notice how drunk chicks and ONS never ask you this question? Because they are hors and don't give a sh1t, they are LOW quality.

But, this is just my personal opinion, yours will varys, and no one has the end all be all answer to this question.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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