"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what do YOU say when a girl asks you, "How many women have you been with?"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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You: I'm a macho... and macho's do not talk about their ex's. (Give this answer with completely cold face and then at the end give a smirk)
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either go with "you're the only one who matters now" or do something else to avoid the question..I like DiSt0rTi0n_07's idea:
Girl: how many women have you been with?
You: more than you
Originally posted by The Juan and only
It's not a good idea to repond with a number.
either go with "you're the only one who matters now" or do something else to avoid the question..I like DiSt0rTi0n_07's idea:
Girl: how many women have you been with?
You: more than you
nice !!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
reyalp
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Rita (Jennifer Bini Taylor): "Is there a girl you're seein'?"
Bobby: "Seein'? Uh, uh, I see a lot of girls. I see a lot of giys too."
Rita: "I think that's sexy. You ever been with a guy and a girl at the same time?"
Bobby: "Oh, yeah, plenty of times. The other night, I was with my mama and Coach Klein at the same time."
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Flabbergasped?
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I answer, "15...divided by 0."
What a baller I am! =)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Her: How many women have you been with
Me: How many men have you been with
Her: None of your buisness
Me: Theres your answer
A lot of these responses seem to be centered around ****y/funny and evasive action. My thought is that this only works if you have generated some sort of social proof/ pre-selection. In other words, a playful response works best if she thinks you've slept with women before.
However, if she thinks you're inexperienced, these answers will seem like you're hiding something. Basically, these answers work in accordance with pre-selection, IMO.
And although you shouldn't tell your actual number unless you're in a serious relationship (read: marriage), you shouldn't be ashamed of it either. The number of women you sleep with is not necessarily correlated to your worth or value to the opposite sex. I know some guys who are complete tools who have slept with more women than me, but they do things like: (1)sleep with girls who are marginally attractive, at best, (2) use getting drunk as an excuse for ****ing ugly girls, (3) lie to girls, telling them they love them in an attempt to **** them, (4) take advantage of drunk girls, etc. You get the picture. I have better game than these guys, yet I have standards and morals.
I also know a guy who has only slept with one girl, but he has been in a serious relationship with her for 3 years and she is smoking hot. He is also a really cool guy, who could assuredly get other girls were he single. I have more respect for him than for the guys who have ****ed more girls than I have.
Also, if you're a virgin: Fake it till you make it. There is nothing wrong with not having had sex before. Just learn the skills necessary, apply them, and you will get laid, sooner or later. Don't be ashamed of it, just work on it.
REJ-
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Girl: "How many guys have you been with?"
You: "Not enough"
Don't know if it's any good though
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If you're honest you'd be surprised by the results and you'll feel a lot better about it. Girls can smell a phony from a mile away.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.