"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you rate this chick? 1-10
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LeviathanIYG
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MacDiddy
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tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
I'd be willing to bet that most guys here who found the CNN girl attractive (8-9), would rate your girls the same as I did. Why? Because those girls exhibit more masculine facial features (strong jawline - high cheek bones etc.).
Most guys will find your girls more attractive (as most guys are of average masculinity), but guys who exhibit more masculinity naturally will find the CNN girl attractive.
Take it for what you will, but is the most natural explanation for attraction and variations thereof between the sexes. It's really surprising how true to form it is.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mroriginal
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http://www.jesper.nu/bilder/tjejer/jessica_alba/jessica_alba_12.jpg
http://thebluesite.com/images/jessicaalba004.jpg
And I'd give Alicia Silverstone the same rating, for the same reasons. Plus, I'm into blondes. And those lips. Damn.
http://www.comicbookhotties.com/images/alicia-silverstone/alicia-silverstone.jpg
www.edgescans.com/silverstone.html
Swoop, that girl from Mystery's website is probably the hottest I've even seen a picture of in months.
The news girl, man she is not very good looking - her face alone looks aged poorly, like it's been caked by too many llayers of makeup which has then been covered with more makeup to hide the aging. Plus, her smile is weird, it looks like she has something in her eye. I give her an HB6 assuming she has a decent body. I'm not extremely picky either, but she loses a lot of points for being too old for me.
BrotherAP
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mroriginal
Banned
Hey buddy its just for fun, dont hold a grudge
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People look for the opposite in a partner. If a guy is very masculine, he looks for a woman who lacks it, looks wise and personality. Also as he said, guys who aren't as masculine dig the chicks who have masculine features and personality.
And yes - the chicks you rated low I would as well.
http://us.f1.yahoofs.com/groups/g_14112545/New+format/BrookeAnderson223.jpg?bcr4TiDBzEMGq3JE
Absolutely beautiful.
Remember, never defend your tastes. If the girl is absoluely beautiful to you, that's all that matters. I have been attracted to girls that are realistically a 5 but to me, they are 8. It's something special about their features that just captivates me. I wouldn't care if someone thinks she is normal. In fact it might even be a good thing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
That's the biggest load of crap i've read all day.
Your masculinity has nothing to do with how you rate women. Like I keep saying over and over and over again each of us has a preferance as to what we like and thusly we each rate women differently. A 10 to me could be a 2 to you and vica versa. Some times we'll agree as to level of attractiveness but how it's reached can not be disected or explained.
Everybody get this through your f*cking heads now because I'm not going to say it again.
YOU CAN'T ARGUE TASTE! Asking other people whether they think a girl is hot or not is an arbitrary waste of time! If you think a girl is smoking hot and nobody's impressed GET OVER IT! Not like their opinion should count anyway because they won't be dating the same people you will anyway. The only reason you should really use a rating system is to show us the gravity of the situation like if you're going after a HB9 that usually means you're really interest/attracted to her where as in another situation if you saw a HB4 you obviously weren't taking her very seriously.
I could go on but I think I've made my point...and although I said I wouldn't i'll probably end up saying it again in a month or so
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
the CNN reporter?
she's okay I've never seen her in person (which by the way is the ultimate determinate especially when someones job is to be on seen as in this case) but like I said it doesn't matter because you can't argue taste. Didn't you learn that in highschool?
Think of girls as motorcycles. If I like street bikes and you like cruisers there's nothing you can say that would make me like cruisers, they're just not to my taste. Infact if I like street bikes and you like another type of street bike there's still no way you could argue that either because again it's simply not to my taste.
Are you getting it yet? It's all in your mind it has nothing to do with what myself or anybody else thinks. Seeking approval from anybody else about what you personally like is stupid
The female shown looks like your typical TV anchorwoman. So much makeup that I really have to wonder what she looks like in person. Plus, she looks like she should be home raising her two 1/2 children.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.