MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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it makes the muscles in your neck denser and thicker, and makes it harder for someone to strangle you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you like/dislike about your body?
- Thread starter ThreeStorms
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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You can stop thinking like a failure would. If a guy like this can go to the gym ( http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=523356 ), and give his 200%, there's no reason you shouldn't.
Quit making excuses or looking for people to hold your hand, and JUST DO IT.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
holy crap
bump, that guy is AWESOME
bump, that guy is AWESOME
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
iveyleeger
Senior Don Juan
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PM me
+ tall
+ very muscular forearms
+ big shoulders
+ i've been complimented on my great smile randomly, quite a few times
+ my brain
+ my intimidating Suge Knight glare that I can turn on and off in an instant
- fat
- lazy
- hard-to-manage facial hair
- pale
- big feet
+ very muscular forearms
+ big shoulders
+ i've been complimented on my great smile randomly, quite a few times
+ my brain
+ my intimidating Suge Knight glare that I can turn on and off in an instant
- fat
- lazy
- hard-to-manage facial hair
- pale
- big feet
jiza101
Master Don Juan
+ tall
+ nice eyes
+ nice lips
+ nice tan
+ big legs
- Small arms and wrists
- I have large front teeth (****s my smile)
- My hair is to thick
- Bigish earlobes
- Big nipples (little bit of fat there as well)
- Carrying to much fat
- Little bit of acne on face (on roaccutane now)
+ nice eyes
+ nice lips
+ nice tan
+ big legs
- Small arms and wrists
- I have large front teeth (****s my smile)
- My hair is to thick
- Bigish earlobes
- Big nipples (little bit of fat there as well)
- Carrying to much fat
- Little bit of acne on face (on roaccutane now)
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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+ tall
+ dark
+ handsome
+ well spoken
+ articulate
+ lovely dark eyes
+ intelligent
+ charming
+ very muscular
+ manly stubble
+ greek
+ trilingual
+ determined
+ motivated
+ energetic
+ enthusiastic
+ sympathetic
+ kind-hearted
+ generous
+ considerate
+ understanding
+ 'dynamite in bed'
etc etc..
- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
+ dark
+ handsome
+ well spoken
+ articulate
+ lovely dark eyes
+ intelligent
+ charming
+ very muscular
+ manly stubble
+ greek
+ trilingual
+ determined
+ motivated
+ energetic
+ enthusiastic
+ sympathetic
+ kind-hearted
+ generous
+ considerate
+ understanding
+ 'dynamite in bed'
etc etc..
- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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don't forget "robs protein delivery trucks at night"!- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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lol