MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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it makes the muscles in your neck denser and thicker, and makes it harder for someone to strangle you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you like/dislike about your body?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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You can stop thinking like a failure would. If a guy like this can go to the gym ( http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=523356 ), and give his 200%, there's no reason you shouldn't.
Quit making excuses or looking for people to hold your hand, and JUST DO IT.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
holy crap
bump, that guy is AWESOME
bump, that guy is AWESOME
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
iveyleeger
Senior Don Juan
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PM me
+ tall
+ very muscular forearms
+ big shoulders
+ i've been complimented on my great smile randomly, quite a few times
+ my brain
+ my intimidating Suge Knight glare that I can turn on and off in an instant
- fat
- lazy
- hard-to-manage facial hair
- pale
- big feet
+ very muscular forearms
+ big shoulders
+ i've been complimented on my great smile randomly, quite a few times
+ my brain
+ my intimidating Suge Knight glare that I can turn on and off in an instant
- fat
- lazy
- hard-to-manage facial hair
- pale
- big feet
jiza101
Master Don Juan
+ tall
+ nice eyes
+ nice lips
+ nice tan
+ big legs
- Small arms and wrists
- I have large front teeth (****s my smile)
- My hair is to thick
- Bigish earlobes
- Big nipples (little bit of fat there as well)
- Carrying to much fat
- Little bit of acne on face (on roaccutane now)
+ nice eyes
+ nice lips
+ nice tan
+ big legs
- Small arms and wrists
- I have large front teeth (****s my smile)
- My hair is to thick
- Bigish earlobes
- Big nipples (little bit of fat there as well)
- Carrying to much fat
- Little bit of acne on face (on roaccutane now)
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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+ tall
+ dark
+ handsome
+ well spoken
+ articulate
+ lovely dark eyes
+ intelligent
+ charming
+ very muscular
+ manly stubble
+ greek
+ trilingual
+ determined
+ motivated
+ energetic
+ enthusiastic
+ sympathetic
+ kind-hearted
+ generous
+ considerate
+ understanding
+ 'dynamite in bed'
etc etc..
- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
+ dark
+ handsome
+ well spoken
+ articulate
+ lovely dark eyes
+ intelligent
+ charming
+ very muscular
+ manly stubble
+ greek
+ trilingual
+ determined
+ motivated
+ energetic
+ enthusiastic
+ sympathetic
+ kind-hearted
+ generous
+ considerate
+ understanding
+ 'dynamite in bed'
etc etc..
- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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don't forget "robs protein delivery trucks at night"!- arrogant, superior, smug, conceited, self-praising bastard.
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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lol