Canadianpimpology
Senior Don Juan
Great newbie guide MOAT. My hat goes off to you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What do you have in your Don Juan utility belt?
- Thread starter Mack Of All Trades
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Thank you very much.
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
I will periodically continue to add new information to my post. Therefore, it will continuously improve.
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Knowledge of Social Proof
Social proof is basically the idea that if someone likes something (girl/boy, any item), there must be something positive about it. This idea is a proven theory that you can witness everyday. For example, you ever noticed how you see someone playing a videogame and then you want to play as well. That is an example of social proof. A more common example among men and women is that if a guy is going out with a girl, all the other girls think there must be something good about him. This is what gets them infatuated with the guy.
How you can gain knowledge of social proof: Basically, just keep witnessing social proof in action. Also, try it yourself. If your out there macking and walking in the hallway with a chick, notice the reaction of the chicks who see you. Youll see what Im talking about.
Why it deserves a post on your belt: This is a tool that uses the female gender's own weaknesses against them. This will spur the natural jealousy and competitive nature inside the ladies. You of course will be the benefactor.
Social proof is basically the idea that if someone likes something (girl/boy, any item), there must be something positive about it. This idea is a proven theory that you can witness everyday. For example, you ever noticed how you see someone playing a videogame and then you want to play as well. That is an example of social proof. A more common example among men and women is that if a guy is going out with a girl, all the other girls think there must be something good about him. This is what gets them infatuated with the guy.
How you can gain knowledge of social proof: Basically, just keep witnessing social proof in action. Also, try it yourself. If your out there macking and walking in the hallway with a chick, notice the reaction of the chicks who see you. Youll see what Im talking about.
Why it deserves a post on your belt: This is a tool that uses the female gender's own weaknesses against them. This will spur the natural jealousy and competitive nature inside the ladies. You of course will be the benefactor.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
Haha you bumped your post 8 times.
And as of this post, I replaced trickynick as number 7 top poster. Diesel and Lorenzo you're next!
And as of this post, I replaced trickynick as number 7 top poster. Diesel and Lorenzo you're next!
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Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
What is the point of this post? Next time, add something worth reading.Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
Haha you bumped your post 8 times.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
How about you not bump your post 9 times? I bumped mine once. Or twice, if you count that smiley face thing that didn't do anything becasue right after, some other guy posted on my thread.Originally posted by Mack Of All Trades
What is the point of this post? Next time, add something worth reading.
I can summarize your post: Do a bunch of million different things that can't be organized into specific categories. Hmm, great idea
Just be a man. You'll have all the ladies you will ever want. Read Pook's "Secret of the Jerk" to understand.
How to handle rejection.
Why it should be in there: Not every chick will be down will your Don Juanness. Your going to have to accept the fact that they don't like you and/or don't want to date/get banged by you.
How to get it: See: CONFIDENCE
Why it should be in there: Not every chick will be down will your Don Juanness. Your going to have to accept the fact that they don't like you and/or don't want to date/get banged by you.
How to get it: See: CONFIDENCE
Mack Of All Trades
Master Don Juan
Basic Conversational Skills (I will create an expansion pack of conversational tips at a later date)
The art of conversation is basically being able to converse and share ideas with other people. You voice your opinions and thoughts and listen to the ideas of others
How you can attain it: This is one of the tougher skills to attain because listening isnt one of the strongpoints of the male gender.
1) You have got to have the will to listen. You must have an interest in your subject and a willingness to learn more about them. Without this, it will extrememly difficult to carry on a decent conversation.
2) To start a conversation it is best to ask an open ended question. This basically means any question that cant be answered with a "yes' or "no".
ex: "Where are you from?" or "How old are you?"
3) To carry on the conversation, it is best to keep the conversation on a 60:40 ratio (Your subject and yourself respectively). People love to talk and give everyone their two cents.
4) When the person answers your question, you want to use the info they gave you and feed it back to them. This establishes a connection between the two of you and gives the illusion that you are hanging on their every word (even though you may not even be listening ). It will also give them the impression that you are very interested in what they have to say, and chicks love that.
for example: You: Where are you from?
Subject: I am from South Carolina.
You: O, so what is it like in south carolina.
Subject: Its warm all year round. Nice place.
5) Although it is optimal if you keep the conversation centered around your subject, you also dont want it to be like an interogation. Therfore, it is best to also tell a little about yourself to keep the convo going smooth (Not too much,though)
Why it deserves a place on your belt: Conversation is one of the most important weapons that he will need to be a succesful mack. It can be used to find out information about the people you meet, and can help you gain valuable information on them. It also helps you get to know a chick. And once a chick knows you well enough and has a decent level of interest in you, she will do a lot for you. However, if you dont converse with a chick well enough, whe wont even give you her number. Dont believe me, try it. I have had bad experiences with chicks that I failed to fluff enough before I number closed. However, with a succesful knowledge of the art of conversation, you can definitely go places.
The art of conversation is basically being able to converse and share ideas with other people. You voice your opinions and thoughts and listen to the ideas of others
How you can attain it: This is one of the tougher skills to attain because listening isnt one of the strongpoints of the male gender.
1) You have got to have the will to listen. You must have an interest in your subject and a willingness to learn more about them. Without this, it will extrememly difficult to carry on a decent conversation.
2) To start a conversation it is best to ask an open ended question. This basically means any question that cant be answered with a "yes' or "no".
ex: "Where are you from?" or "How old are you?"
3) To carry on the conversation, it is best to keep the conversation on a 60:40 ratio (Your subject and yourself respectively). People love to talk and give everyone their two cents.
4) When the person answers your question, you want to use the info they gave you and feed it back to them. This establishes a connection between the two of you and gives the illusion that you are hanging on their every word (even though you may not even be listening
). It will also give them the impression that you are very interested in what they have to say, and chicks love that.for example: You: Where are you from?
Subject: I am from South Carolina.
You: O, so what is it like in south carolina.
Subject: Its warm all year round. Nice place.
5) Although it is optimal if you keep the conversation centered around your subject, you also dont want it to be like an interogation. Therfore, it is best to also tell a little about yourself to keep the convo going smooth (Not too much,though)
Why it deserves a place on your belt: Conversation is one of the most important weapons that he will need to be a succesful mack. It can be used to find out information about the people you meet, and can help you gain valuable information on them. It also helps you get to know a chick. And once a chick knows you well enough and has a decent level of interest in you, she will do a lot for you
. However, if you dont converse with a chick well enough, whe wont even give you her number. Dont believe me, try it. I have had bad experiences with chicks that I failed to fluff enough before I number closed. However, with a succesful knowledge of the art of conversation, you can definitely go places.jmm854
Master Don Juan
WUWD, where's this list? Someone keeps track of this sh*t?
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
under 'Members' and then under 'Top 20 Posters'
By the way, I beat lorenzo. I'm 6th