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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What do you guys think?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I know you think her interest level is high. It is. But if you reciprocate it too much and too often, her IL will drop (so much so that you might be LJBFed). I obviously don't know the specific circumstances of your situation, but I would recommend putting her on the backburner for a while in order to HELP HER sustain her IL in you. Trust me, as soon as she knows (consciously OR unconsciously) that she has "caught" you, she will stop chasing...
Good luck!
Good luck!
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Good advice, when she calls over the next few days should I answer or just be busy for awhile?
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You have your own life to live, which is NOT DEPENDENT on women, including the one in question. (If women are the sole focus or purpose of your life, you need to seriously consider stepping outside of yourself and observing wtf is going on...but I digress .) Let some of her calls go to voice mail (if she's one to leave messages), or answer one or two every now and then but try to be doing something (work, hobby, exercise, sleep, eating, whatever) so you are actually busy. If you aren't busy, fake it: you're not just another common man who she can call up on HER time whenever she feels like she needs some attention. Make her feel like you are a scarce good, and she will put you in the "high demand" category. And flirt with other girls; it's good for you! :rockon:
.) Let some of her calls go to voice mail (if she's one to leave messages), or answer one or two every now and then but try to be doing something (work, hobby, exercise, sleep, eating, whatever) so you are actually busy. If you aren't busy, fake it: you're not just another common man who she can call up on HER time whenever she feels like she needs some attention. Make her feel like you are a scarce good, and she will put you in the "high demand" category. And flirt with other girls; it's good for you! :rockon: