relationsshiptips
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What do you guys think?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I know you think her interest level is high. It is. But if you reciprocate it too much and too often, her IL will drop (so much so that you might be LJBFed). I obviously don't know the specific circumstances of your situation, but I would recommend putting her on the backburner for a while in order to HELP HER sustain her IL in you. Trust me, as soon as she knows (consciously OR unconsciously) that she has "caught" you, she will stop chasing...
Good luck!
Good luck!
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Good advice, when she calls over the next few days should I answer or just be busy for awhile?
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You have your own life to live, which is NOT DEPENDENT on women, including the one in question. (If women are the sole focus or purpose of your life, you need to seriously consider stepping outside of yourself and observing wtf is going on...but I digress .) Let some of her calls go to voice mail (if she's one to leave messages), or answer one or two every now and then but try to be doing something (work, hobby, exercise, sleep, eating, whatever) so you are actually busy. If you aren't busy, fake it: you're not just another common man who she can call up on HER time whenever she feels like she needs some attention. Make her feel like you are a scarce good, and she will put you in the "high demand" category. And flirt with other girls; it's good for you! :rockon:
.) Let some of her calls go to voice mail (if she's one to leave messages), or answer one or two every now and then but try to be doing something (work, hobby, exercise, sleep, eating, whatever) so you are actually busy. If you aren't busy, fake it: you're not just another common man who she can call up on HER time whenever she feels like she needs some attention. Make her feel like you are a scarce good, and she will put you in the "high demand" category. And flirt with other girls; it's good for you! :rockon: