"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you guys think of this?

TheBaconator

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So i went out with this girl last wednesday, we had a great time, lots of flirting/kino and hooked up at the end. Only problem is she just got out of a LTR and still has some feelings for the ex, and got upset when she found out he was with another girl that night (they had been hooking up again which I didn't know prior to the date) and she had this big blowup. At the end of the night they got into a fight over the fone and she said they were done dont worry.

So fast forward to today, I didn't speak to her at all since the date except reply "don't sweat it" to her apology text for ruining my nite. Now I see her at school today and she comes over says high with a huge smile and gives me a friendly kiss on the cheek (if you live in NY you know that's how girls greet friends). She was running so we didn't talk. Maybe i'm over anlyizing, but does this sound like i'm friended? I'm gonna ask her out again, maybe next weekend, just wondering anyones thoughts on this.

I didn't expect a hookup in the middle of campus, but the cheek kiss makes me think she doesn't want it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mavrick

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The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
 

TheBaconator

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Mavrick said:
The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
How am I being her b*tch? I went out and made my move. I am going to ask her to do something again, just wondering if anyone had opinions on the cheek kiss.
 

Mavrick

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I'm not saying that you are, I'm saying you don't become her friend be making it obvious of your intentions. Don't get wound up tight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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