"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do you guys think of this?

TheBaconator

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So i went out with this girl last wednesday, we had a great time, lots of flirting/kino and hooked up at the end. Only problem is she just got out of a LTR and still has some feelings for the ex, and got upset when she found out he was with another girl that night (they had been hooking up again which I didn't know prior to the date) and she had this big blowup. At the end of the night they got into a fight over the fone and she said they were done dont worry.

So fast forward to today, I didn't speak to her at all since the date except reply "don't sweat it" to her apology text for ruining my nite. Now I see her at school today and she comes over says high with a huge smile and gives me a friendly kiss on the cheek (if you live in NY you know that's how girls greet friends). She was running so we didn't talk. Maybe i'm over anlyizing, but does this sound like i'm friended? I'm gonna ask her out again, maybe next weekend, just wondering anyones thoughts on this.

I didn't expect a hookup in the middle of campus, but the cheek kiss makes me think she doesn't want it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mavrick

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The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
 

TheBaconator

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Mavrick said:
The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
How am I being her b*tch? I went out and made my move. I am going to ask her to do something again, just wondering if anyone had opinions on the cheek kiss.
 

Mavrick

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I'm not saying that you are, I'm saying you don't become her friend be making it obvious of your intentions. Don't get wound up tight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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