"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What do you guys think of this?

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So i went out with this girl last wednesday, we had a great time, lots of flirting/kino and hooked up at the end. Only problem is she just got out of a LTR and still has some feelings for the ex, and got upset when she found out he was with another girl that night (they had been hooking up again which I didn't know prior to the date) and she had this big blowup. At the end of the night they got into a fight over the fone and she said they were done dont worry.

So fast forward to today, I didn't speak to her at all since the date except reply "don't sweat it" to her apology text for ruining my nite. Now I see her at school today and she comes over says high with a huge smile and gives me a friendly kiss on the cheek (if you live in NY you know that's how girls greet friends). She was running so we didn't talk. Maybe i'm over anlyizing, but does this sound like i'm friended? I'm gonna ask her out again, maybe next weekend, just wondering anyones thoughts on this.

I didn't expect a hookup in the middle of campus, but the cheek kiss makes me think she doesn't want it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
 
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Mavrick said:
The way to not be LJBF zoned is to go for what you want and stop being her b!tch.
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How am I being her b*tch? I went out and made my move. I am going to ask her to do something again, just wondering if anyone had opinions on the cheek kiss.
 
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I'm not saying that you are, I'm saying you don't become her friend be making it obvious of your intentions. Don't get wound up tight.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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