"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

what do you guys think of this?

crazyman11

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
Tomorrow is valentines, and i'm thinking of making a "love letter" for a girl. It's gonna be one of those do you like me letters with a box for yes and no. At the bottom, it's gonna say "i already know what the answer is, so don't lie :) " then if it says yes, i'll give her a rose. If it says no, then i'll bust out the rose and be like "so i guess you don't want this then". So what do you guys think about it?

Edit: Actually, i think i'll just make one with two yes's haha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

blink-182

New Member
Joined
Feb 11, 2008
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
sounds kind of little kiddish but shell think its cute. lol do two "yes"s thatll be funny
 

BigAL

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 10, 2008
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
Nope, immature, you are trying to win her approval...go read the dj bible
 

clix

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
56
Reaction score
0
BigAL said:
Nope, immature, you are trying to win her approval...go read the dj bible
yeah. That stuff might have worked in the 4th grade, but not now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

In Motion

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2008
Messages
346
Reaction score
6
Location
Basically... Everywhere
Guys, guys. We know to little to judge. We dont even know how old this guy is or what kind of girl she is. I'd probably say it's a little immature but girls are mysterious strange creatures and we never know how they will react. NEVER.

If you do it with two yes' It'll be better, much less immature. It will almost seem like you are kidding but still while being serious. Keep us updated man! Good luck!
 

crazyman11

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
90
Reaction score
0
Yea, it worked. I'm about to ask, i mean tell her out in a couple ours :D. I gave her the letter, and i guess when she opened it, she told some of her friends(I can tell, because one of them came up to me and told me how cute that was haha). So i was in one of my classes with her, and i guess the guy that sits next to her found out (she just said yea) and he was teasing her about it haha. Eventually, i gave her the flower and she thanked me like 5 times. I'm planning on our date to be like mini-golfing or something. You guys got any better suggestions for a good date?
 

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
I dont know how that didnt sound god, it was c&f with the "i know what the answers gunna be" thing. If he just did the "do you like me yes/no" it wouldnt have been as good. Congrats, i did a similar one a few times, a smil face and it said yes/yes.
 
Top