"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what do you guys think of this?

crazyman11

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Tomorrow is valentines, and i'm thinking of making a "love letter" for a girl. It's gonna be one of those do you like me letters with a box for yes and no. At the bottom, it's gonna say "i already know what the answer is, so don't lie :) " then if it says yes, i'll give her a rose. If it says no, then i'll bust out the rose and be like "so i guess you don't want this then". So what do you guys think about it?

Edit: Actually, i think i'll just make one with two yes's haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blink-182

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sounds kind of little kiddish but shell think its cute. lol do two "yes"s thatll be funny
 

BigAL

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Nope, immature, you are trying to win her approval...go read the dj bible
 

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BigAL said:
Nope, immature, you are trying to win her approval...go read the dj bible
yeah. That stuff might have worked in the 4th grade, but not now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In Motion

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Guys, guys. We know to little to judge. We dont even know how old this guy is or what kind of girl she is. I'd probably say it's a little immature but girls are mysterious strange creatures and we never know how they will react. NEVER.

If you do it with two yes' It'll be better, much less immature. It will almost seem like you are kidding but still while being serious. Keep us updated man! Good luck!
 

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Yea, it worked. I'm about to ask, i mean tell her out in a couple ours :D. I gave her the letter, and i guess when she opened it, she told some of her friends(I can tell, because one of them came up to me and told me how cute that was haha). So i was in one of my classes with her, and i guess the guy that sits next to her found out (she just said yea) and he was teasing her about it haha. Eventually, i gave her the flower and she thanked me like 5 times. I'm planning on our date to be like mini-golfing or something. You guys got any better suggestions for a good date?
 

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I dont know how that didnt sound god, it was c&f with the "i know what the answers gunna be" thing. If he just did the "do you like me yes/no" it wouldnt have been as good. Congrats, i did a similar one a few times, a smil face and it said yes/yes.
 
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