What do you guys think I should do with this?

[snowdog]

Ok here is the deal. I know a really hot chick, but I see her only once a month. Nothing I can do about that. Last time I had the intention of asking her out/getting her number, but I didn't. Don't ask my why, but I just didn't. Of course, I can shoot myself for not asking her because we had a nice chat a couple of times. I could had created the opportunity.

Anyway, I have her on this myspace-kinda site. My question is: Is it okay to ask her out though that? I would normally never consider doing it that way (I'm more a fan of doing things more personal), but then again she's hot so a ton of other dudes chase her, AND I only see her again in a month. On the other hand, it's really easy to blow someone off through a site like that.


What would the Don do in this situation?

 

[Dergz]

i wld wait until i see her again to tell her that. its not wise to take the msn path, ESPECIALLY with a hot one. who knows wat she'll think of you. don't risk it

 

[ezily]

God NO! I've tried this before in my AFC days and it did not work (I got a number but it never went anywhere). Granted I was an AFC back then but I believe this move in general is seen as AFC. You need to ask in person. Just MAKE SURE you escalate and get a number/date next time you see her. Since you're friends on that website you should be able to know if she has a boyfriend by then. Stop with the oneitis and find other girls in person.

 

[mikeyb]

God NO! I've tried this before in my AFC days and it did not work (I got a number but it never went anywhere).

I second that. It's best if you start building attraction when you see her in person (especially kino) and then ask her if she wants to come along to something or other. Then you can get her number.

 

[snowdog]

I second that. It's best if you start building attraction when you see her in person (especially kino) and then ask her if she wants to come along to something or other. Then you can get her number.

Every time we meet it feels good, and I use a lot of kino infact. But it's kinda hard because most of the time her friends are around and sh*t.

I know I should have, could have.... phrases that I hate. Phrases I have been able to avoid for a while actually, with girls I'm not totally crazy about. This subject is a different story though.

Stop with the oneitis and find other girls in person.

Easier said then done bro.

 

[snowdog]

Ok, I didn't do anything through myspace and I'm glad I didn't do anything stupid during my sh*tty emotional state.

 

[DonGorgon]

i wld wait until i see her again to tell her that. its not wise to take the msn path, ESPECIALLY with a hot one. who knows wat she'll think of you. don't risk it

exactly

 

[Mavrick]

Drive out to her house in the middle of the night, take out your jam box, and turn it up as loud as you can. Play "In Your Eyes" by Peter Gabriel. Hold it high and confidently so that you can win her heart forever.

You can't lose.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_J-lxK8uCY

 

[snowdog]

Hahaha that's awesome. Bad idea though, she told me her daddy has a gun in his house.