"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you guys think about blue haired girls?

BraddH

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How attractive do you find them? Or do you find them attractive at all? Any other thoughts about them, like are they usually attention seekers or lost in life etc.?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Got close to a pink haired really cute girl once. In a way attention seekers, but paradoxically shy and hard to get. A bit lost, but trying hard to find their own way.

I fvcked the pink haired girl once, told me she had never been that wet during the act. Apparently that wasn't enough to keep her courage up, she got flakey after that, probably some personal insecurities. It's weird because she really liked it, but got all avoidant afterwards. Like she started doubting herself, didn't give me a chance.

She also told me she thought guys were afraid of her, I could see how as she wasn't typical like the rest. I think that really though it was the other way around, she seemed afraid of men and intimacy with them. She also played WoW, a game that tends to somewhat de-socialize people.

I didn't really have an issue with any of that, but I imagine she thought I would (insecurity). Too bad, her loss.
 

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They are all that you mentioned and then some. Whether young or older I just can't take them seriously (just my personal opinion). Until proven wrong in my book they can get down for whatever rather quickly.

As far as being attractive, I've come across
a few. Just my 2 cents.
 
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Not going to lie if I see a female with blue or pink or red colored hair, tattoos and piercings I assume she's as simple as a pimple
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dislike girls dying their hair as a concept, I want a real girl who looks natural and isn't fake, if she's gonna fake anything then get bigger boobs or a bigger butt.

But they can still look good even if it bothers me and I'd still bang if I got the chance, the hair would get on my nerves over time in a relationship though.

Also be wary of her being a giant attention *****.
 
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