BraddH
Master Don Juan
How attractive do you find them? Or do you find them attractive at all? Any other thoughts about them, like are they usually attention seekers or lost in life etc.?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you guys think about blue haired girls?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Serenity
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Got close to a pink haired really cute girl once. In a way attention seekers, but paradoxically shy and hard to get. A bit lost, but trying hard to find their own way.
I fvcked the pink haired girl once, told me she had never been that wet during the act. Apparently that wasn't enough to keep her courage up, she got flakey after that, probably some personal insecurities. It's weird because she really liked it, but got all avoidant afterwards. Like she started doubting herself, didn't give me a chance.
She also told me she thought guys were afraid of her, I could see how as she wasn't typical like the rest. I think that really though it was the other way around, she seemed afraid of men and intimacy with them. She also played WoW, a game that tends to somewhat de-socialize people.
I didn't really have an issue with any of that, but I imagine she thought I would (insecurity). Too bad, her loss.
I fvcked the pink haired girl once, told me she had never been that wet during the act. Apparently that wasn't enough to keep her courage up, she got flakey after that, probably some personal insecurities. It's weird because she really liked it, but got all avoidant afterwards. Like she started doubting herself, didn't give me a chance.
She also told me she thought guys were afraid of her, I could see how as she wasn't typical like the rest. I think that really though it was the other way around, she seemed afraid of men and intimacy with them. She also played WoW, a game that tends to somewhat de-socialize people.
I didn't really have an issue with any of that, but I imagine she thought I would (insecurity). Too bad, her loss.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
They are all that you mentioned and then some. Whether young or older I just can't take them seriously (just my personal opinion). Until proven wrong in my book they can get down for whatever rather quickly.
As far as being attractive, I've come across
a few. Just my 2 cents.
As far as being attractive, I've come across
a few. Just my 2 cents.
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If you're into that sort of thing....
PeasantPlayer
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Not going to lie if I see a female with blue or pink or red colored hair, tattoos and piercings I assume she's as simple as a pimple
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I dislike girls dying their hair as a concept, I want a real girl who looks natural and isn't fake, if she's gonna fake anything then get bigger boobs or a bigger butt.
But they can still look good even if it bothers me and I'd still bang if I got the chance, the hair would get on my nerves over time in a relationship though.
Also be wary of her being a giant attention *****.
But they can still look good even if it bothers me and I'd still bang if I got the chance, the hair would get on my nerves over time in a relationship though.
Also be wary of her being a giant attention *****.