BraddH
Master Don Juan
How attractive do you find them? Or do you find them attractive at all? Any other thoughts about them, like are they usually attention seekers or lost in life etc.?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you guys think about blue haired girls?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Serenity
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Got close to a pink haired really cute girl once. In a way attention seekers, but paradoxically shy and hard to get. A bit lost, but trying hard to find their own way.
I fvcked the pink haired girl once, told me she had never been that wet during the act. Apparently that wasn't enough to keep her courage up, she got flakey after that, probably some personal insecurities. It's weird because she really liked it, but got all avoidant afterwards. Like she started doubting herself, didn't give me a chance.
She also told me she thought guys were afraid of her, I could see how as she wasn't typical like the rest. I think that really though it was the other way around, she seemed afraid of men and intimacy with them. She also played WoW, a game that tends to somewhat de-socialize people.
I didn't really have an issue with any of that, but I imagine she thought I would (insecurity). Too bad, her loss.
I fvcked the pink haired girl once, told me she had never been that wet during the act. Apparently that wasn't enough to keep her courage up, she got flakey after that, probably some personal insecurities. It's weird because she really liked it, but got all avoidant afterwards. Like she started doubting herself, didn't give me a chance.
She also told me she thought guys were afraid of her, I could see how as she wasn't typical like the rest. I think that really though it was the other way around, she seemed afraid of men and intimacy with them. She also played WoW, a game that tends to somewhat de-socialize people.
I didn't really have an issue with any of that, but I imagine she thought I would (insecurity). Too bad, her loss.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
They are all that you mentioned and then some. Whether young or older I just can't take them seriously (just my personal opinion). Until proven wrong in my book they can get down for whatever rather quickly.
As far as being attractive, I've come across
a few. Just my 2 cents.
As far as being attractive, I've come across
a few. Just my 2 cents.
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If you're into that sort of thing....
PeasantPlayer
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Not going to lie if I see a female with blue or pink or red colored hair, tattoos and piercings I assume she's as simple as a pimple
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I dislike girls dying their hair as a concept, I want a real girl who looks natural and isn't fake, if she's gonna fake anything then get bigger boobs or a bigger butt.
But they can still look good even if it bothers me and I'd still bang if I got the chance, the hair would get on my nerves over time in a relationship though.
Also be wary of her being a giant attention *****.
But they can still look good even if it bothers me and I'd still bang if I got the chance, the hair would get on my nerves over time in a relationship though.
Also be wary of her being a giant attention *****.