"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you guys think about agressive women

backbreaker

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I think it's a turn off. I like women who act like women. A woman imho who is brash about telling you she wants to **** you or something like that, is a major turn off to me. Hits at some type of issues. Women aren't supposed to act like that imho unless you are sport ****ing in college or something. Women are supposed to give you the green light to proceed, and you are supposed to proceed, that's the way the game is played.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I don't mind it at all. The chase can be fun a lot of the time but other times I really gain a lot of respect for a woman that knows what she wants and will go out there and get it. I find it can be an appealing trait for a man or woman. I myself though am at a point in my life where I am more attracted to "bad girls" rather than nice girls.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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It shoots my horse because women who act like men don't do it for me. It's a masculine quality, and aggressive women usually have bad attitudes.

But there are certainly exceptions to this rule:cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kailex

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I've actually dated women who were aggressive externally but in reality, they were really submissive.

I guess that was the weird thing about dating Puerto Ricans in the past.
 
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