"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys think about agressive women

backbreaker

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I think it's a turn off. I like women who act like women. A woman imho who is brash about telling you she wants to **** you or something like that, is a major turn off to me. Hits at some type of issues. Women aren't supposed to act like that imho unless you are sport ****ing in college or something. Women are supposed to give you the green light to proceed, and you are supposed to proceed, that's the way the game is played.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I don't mind it at all. The chase can be fun a lot of the time but other times I really gain a lot of respect for a woman that knows what she wants and will go out there and get it. I find it can be an appealing trait for a man or woman. I myself though am at a point in my life where I am more attracted to "bad girls" rather than nice girls.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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It shoots my horse because women who act like men don't do it for me. It's a masculine quality, and aggressive women usually have bad attitudes.

But there are certainly exceptions to this rule:cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kailex

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I've actually dated women who were aggressive externally but in reality, they were really submissive.

I guess that was the weird thing about dating Puerto Ricans in the past.
 
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