"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do you guys think about agressive women

backbreaker

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I think it's a turn off. I like women who act like women. A woman imho who is brash about telling you she wants to **** you or something like that, is a major turn off to me. Hits at some type of issues. Women aren't supposed to act like that imho unless you are sport ****ing in college or something. Women are supposed to give you the green light to proceed, and you are supposed to proceed, that's the way the game is played.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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I don't mind it at all. The chase can be fun a lot of the time but other times I really gain a lot of respect for a woman that knows what she wants and will go out there and get it. I find it can be an appealing trait for a man or woman. I myself though am at a point in my life where I am more attracted to "bad girls" rather than nice girls.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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It shoots my horse because women who act like men don't do it for me. It's a masculine quality, and aggressive women usually have bad attitudes.

But there are certainly exceptions to this rule:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kailex

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I've actually dated women who were aggressive externally but in reality, they were really submissive.

I guess that was the weird thing about dating Puerto Ricans in the past.
 
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