Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
After a long hard week on the job. What do you guys like to do to relieve some stress and have fun? Give me some ideas. Thanks.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What do you guys like to do on your days off?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Well. I have the GF to consider. So I try to find things we both like. Fortunately, we’re very compatible in this regard. Also, we’re in an area with lots to do. For example this weekend , We’re going to a regional park with a garden arboretum. Next weekend, it’s apple harvest and we may head up
to the foothills of the mountains.
to the foothills of the mountains.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Right now I'm practicing my over-the-fire cooking skills for either an Ice fishing trip or a camping trip next summer, yesterday I was boiling eggs in a can, day before that cooking rice in a can for the 2nd or 3rd time, finally got that down, I've tried cooking potatoes about 5 times now and it's a lot harder than I thought it would be, I'm about ready to give up on that.
Doctor Europeo
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Walking, I like walking in the morning. I like the feeling of doing something "productive" in the morning even if its a day off.
Trying a new restaurant. Going to the movies and having some popcorn.
Not necessarily on days off but whenever I have free time after a long day of hard work, I like hanging out at home to play video games for a little bit before catching up on some Netflix.
Trying a new restaurant. Going to the movies and having some popcorn.
Not necessarily on days off but whenever I have free time after a long day of hard work, I like hanging out at home to play video games for a little bit before catching up on some Netflix.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
corrector
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I dont have true days off. Chores at home and hanging with my elderly folks and cleaning up the home means I am constantly busy. A full time job is seen as a massive personal time displacent. That means personal time is always a frenzied catchup.
The Duke
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On my days off I race cars. I also ride Atv's, horses, and girls! I like live music, dancing, drinking. I like campfires on my land. I like time on my tractor moving dirt or mowing pastures. I also like to build things with my hands.
BoomToTheMoonAlice
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I like to reflect on the fact that most Canadian men are cucks.
BoomToTheMoonAlice
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Touche.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Rest and/or find something productive whether it would be video games, reading, potential side hustles, etc.
RazorRambo24
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Definitely have alot of free time so everyday is different but im big on enjoying a nice fine dining experience, se.x, enjoying a nice cigar, hitting the gym, playing basketball, shopping, reading, good conversation, chess, football, ufc/mma, drawing/painting/cooking or grilling.
Today was a Oliva Series G Churchill for a nice long smoke.
I also enjoy just hitting some nice roads and driving.
Since settling down in a relationship, ive been enjoying spending time with my girl and just exploring different cool things to do. Having the full girlfriend experience has been quite interesting even though Ive had moments like that with close plates (her being the main one) but now theres almost a greater sense of calm.
Today was a Oliva Series G Churchill for a nice long smoke.
I also enjoy just hitting some nice roads and driving.
Since settling down in a relationship, ive been enjoying spending time with my girl and just exploring different cool things to do. Having the full girlfriend experience has been quite interesting even though Ive had moments like that with close plates (her being the main one) but now theres almost a greater sense of calm.
Doctor Europeo
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As long a she gives you mental peace, maybe keep her around
deadmasterx
Senior Don Juan
When I was in Portugal I used to like to go hiking. Many places to see, many beautiful spots. I'm not much of a runner, but I'm a big fan of walking. Walking with nature around has always been a great time for me. Plus, it's healthy, you're "connected with the world" while not having to deal with people. A win-win for me.