"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you guys do when you've given up?

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Kailex said:
Warrior, I'm pretty sure that means he still is.
I've seen women dance around an issue less than this.

And not that I am trying to be condescending but... you paid $7 to a hooker for 2 hugs?

I could have done that for $6.
You know, come to think of it, that hooker was a bad salesperson.

Let's assume that I am a virgin for the sake of arguement. Who is going to sell me the idea to have sex and attempt to make a profit on that? It's like selling ice to the eskamos, or sand to the Arabs.

A hooker is inside my car, trying to up-sell me from a hug for $ 5.00 to have full blown oral sex or vaginal sex with her, for $ 15.00 more (and she's not too bad looking, although not very hot), and she could not sell me to do that?

Usually sales people have to think of ways of handling objections. Like "don't worry, I don't have any STDs, and my leg is just shaking because I like you not because I'm a drug addict.", or "what you don't want to pay an additional $ 15.00 for a bare-back blow job right now, homo!". Or, "okay, you look like you really need to get laid, just give me the money and I'll take care of you." I remember one escort in the past told me that "it's the best $ 100 you'll spend in your life".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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