Shootin4Dreams
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What do you guys text day before or day of?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you guys do to avoid flaking on same day i seem to have this issue sometimes?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who Dares Win
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I dont usually plan dates in advance unless its a girl I bang or a girl that shows VERY HIGH interest.
Anyway the best suggestion I can give you to avoid wasting time its simply send a brief short message an hour before the date when you're still at home.
Just ask her if she doesnt mind having a brief walk in a shop close to your meeting place cause you have to buy something for a friend, it doesnt really matter what she answers as long as she does it.
No answer is a huge chance of flake, if you want you can send an other one or call...no pickup or no reply and you got your answer.
They say the medium is the message, her silence is.
If she instead answers that she doesnt have the time cause she is in a hurry after the date, you got your low interest, ask yourself if its worth to go at that point, I usually eject by saying that I dont wanna stress her.
Anyway the best suggestion I can give you to avoid wasting time its simply send a brief short message an hour before the date when you're still at home.
Just ask her if she doesnt mind having a brief walk in a shop close to your meeting place cause you have to buy something for a friend, it doesnt really matter what she answers as long as she does it.
No answer is a huge chance of flake, if you want you can send an other one or call...no pickup or no reply and you got your answer.
They say the medium is the message, her silence is.
If she instead answers that she doesnt have the time cause she is in a hurry after the date, you got your low interest, ask yourself if its worth to go at that point, I usually eject by saying that I dont wanna stress her.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Nothing. She flakes or she doesn't. A women that just flakes on you without a counter is either some kind of idiot with no manners or consideration, or she doesn't really like you either way better to find out sooner than later..... just move onto the next one and be glad you didn't waste any money or time on her.
Make a date with a place/time and then that's it. If she stands you up delete the number, never call again. If she flakes and doesn't offer an alternate time, then delete the number. If she likes you and is worried that you haven't confirmed with her, then she'll reach out to you. Then go ahead and just confirm with her and get off the phone.
Make a date with a place/time and then that's it. If she stands you up delete the number, never call again. If she flakes and doesn't offer an alternate time, then delete the number. If she likes you and is worried that you haven't confirmed with her, then she'll reach out to you. Then go ahead and just confirm with her and get off the phone.
I agree with Ranger but if you want to save your time just text her something like "I'm going to be late for 30min" or "I have to delay our meeting to 7:30" when you've agreed on 7... just to avoid flakes and wasted time if you are not sure about the girl showing up.
But first learn to share your time not to plan your time around some girl's presence.
do what you enjoy and invite girls. if it's a bar or lounge then just socialize with people/girls there; get some numbers or some insta-date.
guys here really need to get that neediness for others or planing their time around others to enjoy their time; and in a strange way when you let go of that neediness and anxiety sh!t start happen smoothly on their own way. life is weird
But first learn to share your time not to plan your time around some girl's presence.
do what you enjoy and invite girls. if it's a bar or lounge then just socialize with people/girls there; get some numbers or some insta-date.
guys here really need to get that neediness for others or planing their time around others to enjoy their time; and in a strange way when you let go of that neediness and anxiety sh!t start happen smoothly on their own way. life is weird
BackInTheGame78
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Be a man she actually wants to meet and many of these issues solve themself.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you think she might flake, just text her on the day of your date saying you may be late..
''I might be 10 minutes late tonight, don't be tragically sad''
If she doesn't reply then you know she's probably going to flake.
''I might be 10 minutes late tonight, don't be tragically sad''
If she doesn't reply then you know she's probably going to flake.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
If you're properly scarce, an interested girl won't flake.