"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you find physically attractive in a woman?

TheMonkeyKing

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I don't have a particular type, but lately am wanting to try different shapes, sizes and colours :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Love the thick big booty blonde girls. Im seeing a thick girl right now but brunette, however i went out with a blonde last week. Pretty face, big t*ts and big booty. Not trying to make this a race thing but the black dudes go crazy over that type lol http://i.imgur.com/UTkn1os.jpg Thick booty FTW :up:
 

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i think my favorite type is big booty big boobs girl with darker skin (like latinas, or half black girls, etc).

However, I have been smitten with women of all shapes, sizes and colors. (no fatties though)

I'm currently seeing a tall, skinny, white brunette. She is very european looking and very attractive.

I guess I really don't have a type.
 

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I've gone through phases.

I was into latinas for a while, then I had a black girl phase, dated a Brazilian girl, and all types of white girls.

Now that my tastes have "matured", I like fair-skinned, fit, northern to eastern european types with long or very long hair.

Big boobs are great, but all other things being equal I would take a girl with shapely legs and as$ and a flat chest over a big-busted woman with a flabby or flat as$ any day of the week.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Colossus said:
I've gone through phases.

I was into latinas for a while, then I had a black girl phase, dated a Brazilian girl, and all types of white girls.

Now that my tastes have "matured", I like fair-skinned, fit, northern to eastern european types with long or very long hair.

Big boobs are great, but all other things being equal I would take a girl with shapely legs and as$ and a flat chest over a big-busted woman with a flabby or flat as$ any day of the week.
This.

While Im attracted to a variety of women, I prefer fit women. Id take great legs and a flat stomach over breasts any day. The thing about breasts is they are made of fat...so a girl with large breasts usually has fat on her tummy and thighs. Plus big t!ts dont age the best since they will definitely sag more.

So yeah, like I said, as a fit guy I like a fit athletic woman.
 

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In2theGame said:
I Love the thick big booty blonde girls. Im seeing a thick girl right now but brunette, however i went out with a blonde last week. Pretty face, big t*ts and big booty. Not trying to make this a race thing but the black dudes go crazy over that type lol http://i.imgur.com/UTkn1os.jpg Thick booty FTW :up:
My eyes started watering when I saw that. Holy f*** :yes: and yes I'm a mulatto... :p

I find both this, this and this very arousing. "Normal" girls usually just don't register sexually for me, don't know why. It takes a girl like one of those three (as long as she isn't short, doesn't have short hair and doesn't smoke) to make me interested beyond just relieving an urge. I have to cross the Atlantic some day, can't find that here...
 
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AttackFormation said:
My eyes started watering when I saw that. Holy f*** :yes: and yes I'm a mulatto... :p

I find both this, this and this very arousing. "Normal" girls usually just don't register sexually for me, don't know why. It takes a girl like one of those three (as long as she isn't short, doesn't have short hair and doesn't smoke) to make me interested beyond just relieving an urge. I have to cross the Atlantic some day, can't find that here...
LMAO! dude the other pics you showed those girls are huge and disgusting. I like it thick with a shape but not sloppy. maybe this is a better example http://i.imgur.com/oApud96.jpg although that might be photoshopped because that looks too perfect. Thick girls WITH a shape not roles are ****ing awesome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I love the geeky looking ones, the good girls who become bad. The ones I make bad :nono:

Physically I first look at the a$$ and the neck.

Could care less about ( . )( . ) size. If they are obviously fake it actually disgusts me.

Can tolerate a little extra weight on the woman if her neck and face look thin and hot.

Can tolerate a face that isn't an 8,9 or 10 if the body makes up for it.

I prefer the \ | / with some grass on it. So like this \#|#/ .


Hate women who's personality stinks worse than my crap the day after Mexican night. Don't care how good she looks.
 

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LMAO! dude the other pics you showed those girls are huge and disgusting. I like it thick with a shape but not sloppy. maybe this is a better example http://i.imgur.com/oApud96.jpg although that might be photoshopped because that looks too perfect. Thick girls WITH a shape not roles are ****ing awesome.
I didn't mean to suggest they were similar :p I just meant I like both.
 

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Just dont be a fatty, or deformed. Thick is ok, as long as its in the right places. As long as she isnt hideous, there is a good chance I will stick my penis in it (also good hygienic is a must).
 

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MUST be photoshopped! No white chick has an azz that bubbly.
LOL i know. I have seen some with incredible azzes though but rare.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Big butt, biggish thighs, small waist and busty. And a nice face with bedroom eyes as well.
 

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I've always been a "vagina" guy. Not boobs, not butt, the vagina was the main course: beat up with bat-wing labia? BZZZT!!! No thanks!

But other things began to matter more to me, so I had to open up the field in order to find a qualifier:

Shorter than me
Weighs less than me
Dark hair

Once I finally found one that passes "Anti-Dump's Machine"...
Well... I needed to flex a bit.
I have a blonde with a sexy voice that I loooOOoove to hear talking...
she babbles on about intelligent subjects. *Shrug* She dyed her hair dark for me once, so she fit the bill "technically".

And whaddya know? One of the most perfectly beautiful vajay-jays I've seen. Bonus!
 
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