"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you do with your girl or to your girl to keep her interested in you?

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Just want to know what you guys do to keep your girl happy and have her interest high and have fun with you I am sure one thing is make some spontaneous random fun plans or change things up a bit weekly.

What are some other things you guys do usually or to raise her interest in you so she just wants you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make her invest and do things for you. Give her off the wall answers to simple questions. Always put funny/****y contingencies on a request of hers, disappear for a day, never let her shake your frame, and most importantly, all of these via Roissy @ CH:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
 
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What do you do if she complain and wants to do stuff for her she said would like me to get her flowers go nice dinner and take her out in public etc...??
 

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do those things sparingly on your own terms not because she told you to.
 

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Disappearing for a day really does get their interest up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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these are questions your girl should be asking about you.
 
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well its not and we don't really talk everyday or anything she just sees me few nights a week we just hangout have sex etc.... so????????
 
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so how do you have her interested also like I said she wants me take her nice dinner once in a while and get her flowers and said wanted me take her out public etc.. do fun stuff
 

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are you illiterate? read the link and advice I gave you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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