"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do you do with your girl or to your girl to keep her interested in you?

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Just want to know what you guys do to keep your girl happy and have her interest high and have fun with you I am sure one thing is make some spontaneous random fun plans or change things up a bit weekly.

What are some other things you guys do usually or to raise her interest in you so she just wants you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dgwizdal

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Make her invest and do things for you. Give her off the wall answers to simple questions. Always put funny/****y contingencies on a request of hers, disappear for a day, never let her shake your frame, and most importantly, all of these via Roissy @ CH:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
 
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What do you do if she complain and wants to do stuff for her she said would like me to get her flowers go nice dinner and take her out in public etc...??
 

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do those things sparingly on your own terms not because she told you to.
 

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Disappearing for a day really does get their interest up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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these are questions your girl should be asking about you.
 
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well its not and we don't really talk everyday or anything she just sees me few nights a week we just hangout have sex etc.... so????????
 
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so how do you have her interested also like I said she wants me take her nice dinner once in a while and get her flowers and said wanted me take her out public etc.. do fun stuff
 

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are you illiterate? read the link and advice I gave you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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