"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do with your girl or to your girl to keep her interested in you?

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Just want to know what you guys do to keep your girl happy and have her interest high and have fun with you I am sure one thing is make some spontaneous random fun plans or change things up a bit weekly.

What are some other things you guys do usually or to raise her interest in you so she just wants you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Make her invest and do things for you. Give her off the wall answers to simple questions. Always put funny/****y contingencies on a request of hers, disappear for a day, never let her shake your frame, and most importantly, all of these via Roissy @ CH:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
 
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What do you do if she complain and wants to do stuff for her she said would like me to get her flowers go nice dinner and take her out in public etc...??
 

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do those things sparingly on your own terms not because she told you to.
 

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Disappearing for a day really does get their interest up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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these are questions your girl should be asking about you.
 
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well its not and we don't really talk everyday or anything she just sees me few nights a week we just hangout have sex etc.... so????????
 
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so how do you have her interested also like I said she wants me take her nice dinner once in a while and get her flowers and said wanted me take her out public etc.. do fun stuff
 

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are you illiterate? read the link and advice I gave you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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